What’s the hardest decision you’ve ever had to make? Why?
Everyone has to make hard decisions in life. And life is full of them. Facing and making difficult choices throughout life is an essential part of personal growth and Development. It push us out of our comfort zones and forces us to adapt and learn challenges. The tough decisions we make in help us to become more mature and become stronger.
That being said, I think the hardest decision I ever had to make was whether to stay in my marriage or leave. My marriage was in a very bad place for years, and I chose to stay because of my children. I didn’t want them to grow up without their Father. after they were raised and I could think about me, and realizing that my husband and I had done some terrible things to each other over the years. I have a very hard decision to make, after seeking a lawyer for a divorce, I remember that I took a vow to love him forever “til death do you part.”
Marriage is a sacrifice it involves prioritize in the well being and happiness of the other person about our desires and needs. It isn’t and never was about choosing to end a marriage based on our selfishness.
Marriage is a life long bond between a man and a woman. So, I chose to stay and work on my marriage. First of all we had to forgive each other for every wrong we had done to each other. Put the past behind us and move on.
Funny thing is, once I allowed God to become a part of my marriage things began to get better. Marriage doesn’t take two it takes three -the woman, the man, and God in the middle.
From Pity to Praise 