I think most of us are good at talking to or at God rather than talking with Him. But is that really having an intimate relationship with Him? When we talk at or to Him we are just expecting God to fix everything or just acknowledging His existence without actively seeking His input or surrendering anything. It’s a monologue -a one sided conversation.
When we talk with God in a two-way conversation or a dialogue, we are expecting to hear from Him. It signifies a relational conversation focused on building a deeper connection, not just making requests, it leads to a personal transformation and, guidance-seeking relationship. It puts God in the center and lets Him take the driver’s seat. This helps us move beyond just self-reliance to co-piloting with God’s divine wisdom.
It becomes about expressing our feelings, and then listening for His voice through scripture, conscience, peace, and surrendering control that can foster a dynamic relationship where God’s perspective can shape our path.
When we can shift to talking with God, rather than just talking to or at Him, God helps us see our issues differently, and we can gain new insights.
When can we let go of our control and let God have more control it moves us from self-sufficiency to recognizing God as our provider, healer, and sustainer, and empowers us to cast more of our cares on Him.
It’s about pursuing a relationship, not just a roadmap, fostering a constant connection where we can learn to walk with Him.
From Pity to Praise 