Beauty in your life- change your thoughts for a positive outlook
What would you do if you won the lottery?
If I won the lottery I would pay off my bills and then go purchase a beach home with some acreage and live happily ever after.
Hopefully I would be able to help some people along my lottery journey. One thing about getting a large amount of money is you can never forget where you came from. So many people who have money turn into greedy jerks, i would not want to be that way.
What books do you want to read?
Right now I am reading “The Real Faith” by Charles A. Price. And “Unshakable Hope Building Our Lives on the Promises of God. And “The Holy Bible.”
I usually read books based on Faith, because I believe that what you put in your head comes out of your mouth.
We’ve probably heard people say, “God will make a way.” I remember thinking “Ya right,” You have to take care of yourself first cause no one else is going to, right?
But then I learned that God’s ways are not our ways. Isaiah 55:8-9 says, “For my thoughts are not your thoughts, Nor are your ways my ways, says the Lord. For the heavens are higher than the earth, so my ways are higher than your ways, And My thoughts than your thoughts.
I think many people doubt if God really cares about them. I didn’t think He cared for me for nearly 35 years. But God does care, Jeremiah 29:10-11 says,
“For the Lord says, “After seventy years are accomplished for Babylon, I will visit you and perform my good word toward you, in causing you to return to this place. For I know the thoughts that I think toward you,” says the Lord, “thoughts of peace, and not evil, to give you hope and a future.”
This is one of many scriptures that tells us how much God loves us. When you read this scripture, does it make you feel faithful or fearful? I have gone from being fearful to faithful when reading this scripture over the years. Because I fear disappointment, the idea that God would take care of me and give me hope and a future used to scare me. The thought of being disappointed robbed me of the joy I should have felt younger in life.
In Numbers, God answered Moses, “Had the Lord’s hand grown short? Now you will see whether my word will happen of not.”
Have you ever told someone that you are there and let them know that you will help them and they doubted your love? It doesn’t feel very good. It makes you feel rejected and hurt.
God promises to take care of us, And God doesn’t like it when we doubt His love. The great thing about God is, that He isn’t like us and even though we can doubt Him, He will still come for us.
God cares about what we care about.
“Casting all your cares (all your anxieties, all your worries, and all your concerns, once and for all) on Him, for He cares about you.” (with deepest affection, and watches over you very carefully). – 1 Peter 5:7 (Amplified)
God knows we worry about things, have desires for things and get concerned about many things and He cares. This scripture says He watches over us with the deepest affection and very carefully. The closest comparison I can think of is a parent tending to their newborn baby. They are attentive and ready to help at any moment, working overtime to calm fears and comfort their little ones. This is what God does for us. All we have to do is tell Him what is on our minds and what we are feeling.
During prayer or even talking to Him in form of conversation can tell Him everything. He wants to know what’s going on in our hearts so that He can relieve our fears and replace them with hope.
One way God takes care of us is through the people around us. Even before I was a believer God used people in my life to take care of me when I needed it. If I look back I can see where God protected me through others during the hard times in my life.
Can you see in your past where God took care of you, when you least expected it?
“Commit your way to the Lord. Trust also in Him, and He will do this: He will make your righteousness go out as the light, and your justice as the noon day sun” -Psalm 37:6-7.
This scripture promises that when we choose to depend on God, He will take care of us.
Write about a few of your favorite family traditions.
I love my Hungarian family traditions. family get-together, with lots of food, and music. At Christmas, my Nagymama would make poppy seed desserts of strudel, and rolls. The rolls had 2 fillings symbolizing richness and good health and walnuts, which were believed to protect against bad luck.
My nagymama came here from Hungary when we was 16 and she taught me so much about Hungary. She always smelled like the lily of the valley.
I loved dancing with my Father . He would dance and sing the Hava Nagila. Which is Jewish, but for years I thought it was Hungarian.
“Sheol and Abaddon are never satisfied; and a man’s eyes are never satisfied” -Proverbs 27;20
Sheol and abaddon mean hell and destruction and the words says Hell is never full, and interestingly the next part speaks of human desire: the eyes of man are never satisfied, which suggests that greed is tied to eternal damnation.
If you think about the greediest people you know they are usually already high in status, having wealth or power and the need for more wealth. Politicians that are elected to office have power, but that isn’t enough, they have to have money and power and end up making shady deals and taking bribes to get more money while they have power, because one isn’t enough, which is the case with human desire and human depravity. That nature is in all of us because we inherited it from Adam and Eve, when they were thrown out of the Garden of Eden.
But what is scary, is that God’s Word says in one verse ties human desire not being fulfilled, to hell not ever overflowing. The reality is we can make all this fame and fortune in life on earth, but in the next God is not going to let anyone into heaven because the have the largest bank account, Greed separates us from God.
If we remember Jesus and the rich ruler, the rich ruler says, teacher what do I need to do to get into heaven? Jesus told him sell everything you have and give it to the poor, the rich ruler walked away crying because he loved his wealth, and couldn’t part with it.
It’s easy for us to point fingers at the ones richer than we are and say, this applies to them, but it also applies to us. Human desire is not exclusive to just rich people, it is every one of us who come from Adam and Eve, the entire human race. It is sin, and the only One who shows us our sin and takes it away is Jesus. We have to remember what He tells us, “do not state us our wealth in earth because it will just fade away.” Instead, we should store up our time and resources in heavenly places that are eternal.
What do you enjoy doing most in your leisure time?
In my Leisure time, I enjoy being in nature, long drives with the music and my dog. Spending time with friends. And reading.
“Jesus said (John 3:8) that the Spirit’s action is like that of wind. The movements of the wind have a mystery to them. You can’t tell where the end comes from or where it is going. Likewise the Spirit. Indeed the Spirit blows where he wills. No one is master of the Spirit” -Grahan Cole
We tend to take for granted walking until it becomes difficult or impossible. Some people even where devices that track the number of their steps taken in a day as a way to encourage them to live a more active lifestyle. How a person walks is so distinctive that it is even possible for software to identify people based on their gait.
The Bible uses walking as a metaphor for a person’s way of life, encompassing beliefs, attitudes, desires, and actions. This metaphor is used in prominent contexts in the Bible in contrast between two different ways of walking/living (see Psalm 1-6; Proverbs 4:10-19). In Genesis 5 what set Enoch apart was that he “walked with God.” God’s people are called to walk in God’s ways (Psalm 119:3) rather than walk in the counsel of the wicked (Psalm 1-1).
The New Testament expands on the walking metaphor. Because of Jesus’s resurrection, believers “Walk in newness of life” (Romans 6:4). True believers are called to walk in a manner worthy of the Lord.
But maybe the expression that stands above them all in the New Testament is the concept of walking in or by the Spirit. Galatians 5:16 say,
“Walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh.”
The Apostle Paul uses a similar expression in Romans 8:4,
“The righteousness requirement of the law (is) fulfilled in us, who walk not according to the flesh but according to the Spirit.”
It doesn’t matter if the New Testament speaks of walking in, by, or according to the Spirit, each expression sets the larger idea that the Spirit is the One who defines how we live.
Walking in the Spirit means living a life that depends on the Spirit’s power to grow in godliness, obey God’s commands and experience increasing intimacy with God.
God’s power to orient all the different aspects of one’s life towards God. According to Romans 8:5, “Those who live according to the Spirit set their minds on the things of the Spirit. The Spirit helps us direct our thoughts, emotions, inclinations, and desires in ways that are pleasing to God and are consistent with His character. As we depend on the Spirit, He transforms the desires of our hearts to align with God’s heart which enables us to resist sin that is still experienced in the fallen world (Galatians 5:16).
One of the most important things that leader do is define their purpose, and identify what they ultimately want to achieve.
If purpose missions are so important for leaders, why don’t we spend any time creating them for ourselves?
All of us have different ideas about success. What’s important though is that we send time defining our version of success individually. Otherwise, how will you understand what you should be working toward and how will you if your decisions are helping you move towards your goals.
Mission and vision statements are useful for bringing sharp focus to your most important goal and help you quickly identify where you should start and what you should pursue.
January isn’t over, so this is a good time to begin working on this. I need to get my vision statement figured out and begin working toward my goal for the year. I’ve done this in the past but always get distracted before the close of the year.
Shaping this goal into a mission statement helps to keep it in the front of your mind, and helps to focus your energy and resources on it. Without focus, we can become distracted and causes us to spread out effort too thinly across multiple goals.
There is a difference between a mission statement and a vision statement.
Identify what you best. Your unique strengths will point to what you would like to do most with your life.
Think about what success means to you. If you get stuck try making a list of accomplishments that really made you feel like you’ve done something worthwhile. If you make a short list to track your progress.
Take the time to explore what you want to do with your life. Narrow down the goals you want to pursue most.
After doing the first 3 steps, look at your goals, and your unique strengths and then identify one goal that you most want to achieve.
Focus on the goal you have chosen think about it every day. I find that spending a few moments at night to recall where I am with my goal, helps me.
It’s so easy to just push our main goals aside when get busy or distracted by something else that we often forget about our main goal. If you get off track, don’t give up. Pick it back up and start working on that goal.
List five things you do for fun.
Things I do for fun. Most people would not think some of the things I do for fun are fun. But here it goes,
1. Being in nature. A walk in nature to calm my soul.
2. Bible Studies. It’s a satisfaction I derive from knowing and understanding
3. Weekend road road trips. I love road trips because of the different scenery and people you get to meet along the way.
4. Reading and writing. I love reading and then sharing with others what I’ve learned. It’s what I thrive on.
5. Helping others. I’m always up for helping someone in need. It makes me feel good to connect with others and creates a sense of belonging for me, and is a great way to decrease stress.
“For whatever things were written before were written for our learning, that through perseverance and through encouragement of the Scriptures we might have hope” -Romans 15:4
This verse was written in the New Testament and tells us that the things that were written in the past (meaning the Old Testament) were written to encourage us and give us hope.
Many people think that Christianity puts a person in bondage and restricts their freedom. However, the exact opposite is true. Jesus came to set people free from bondage to sin to live in the freedom that only comes from God.
I know from experience what bondage to sin looks like. After many years of suffering, I woke up. I say it this way because when God forgave me and I chose to follow Him, I felt like I literally woke up from a coma. I was asleep for so long that I forgot how to live. I forgot how to love and feel love.
When someone becomes a believer, Jesus, the Son, sets them free from sin. All your past mistakes mean nothing. There is a process of spiritual growth that results in greater freedom in their lives,
Freedom from bondage is a liberating moment when someone is released from an influence or power that has dominated their life. Prior to freedom there was restraint of personal liberty, or captivity in one form or another; which when freed from it’s grip gives that person a reason to shout in victory,
I like Psalm 49:1-2 because it tells of a time when David reveals freedom from bondage,
“I waited patiently for the Lord. He turned to me, and heard my cry. He brought me up also out of a horrible put, out of miry clay. He set my feet on a rock, and gave me a firm place to stand.“
Freedom from bondage only comes when you realize you are in such a condition. I’ve said before that my children were the ones who got me to go to church. And I thought that once I began going all my problems would go away. When I was baptized I thought all my problems would go away. Neither were the case.
Satan had me in such bondage I could not break away on my own. And simple things like going to church or being baptized we’re not the answer. It took 4-years for me to break free from my sin and satan. 4 years of praying, reading my Bible, repenting of my sins, crying out to God. It took 4 years to break the bondage I was in.
When someone has been in bondage to sin, and its devilish impulses, it is only when they are awakened to the fact will thru seek deliverance. I needed deliverance from the bondage I was in both from my past and the bondage I allowed satan to put me in.
Paul wrote in Romans 6:16-17
“Don’t you know that when you present yourselves as servants and obey someone, you are the servants of whomever you obey; whether of sin to death or of obedience to righteousness? But thanks be to God, that whereas you were bondservants of sin, you became obedient from the heart to that form of teaching to which you were delivered.”
When I read this scripture for the first time it all made sense. I realized I was being held in captivity. I was void of conscience or conviction, I was enslaved to what would condemn my soul to hell rather than heaven.
I was brought into captivity (bondage) of the devil, out of which nothing but the power of God, and His Son could extricate them.
One’s iniquities can be in such a snare or net which becomes so entangled that they cannot extricate themselves, not able to shake off the shackles of such entrapment.
When we choose to follow Jesus the bondage that one is under starts to come off. We may have to fight like the dickens to get rid of it but God comes to free us from the bondage satan tells us is freedom.
The desire to be free is one of the strongest desires in human nature. To some people, freedom is the right to do whatever they desire, whenever they desire, with no one telling them what to do.
A ship without a rudder is free, and a train without tracks is free. Both are free to travel wherever they can go. But both cannot travel in the direction they need to go, and they will eventually end up in a terrible wreck.
Freedom is not the right to do what we desire, but rather the desire to do what is right. This is the freedom we should be seeking for.
If you could make your pet understand one thing, what would it be?
If my dog could talk I wished she would understand that when I leave her home for a few days I am coming back. And that she needs to listen to my husband and eat for him.
My dog is a one-person dog. On occasion I have to leave her for a out of town trip. And she will not obey or eat for my husband. She is listen to my daughter but she doesn’t live here.
Usually, when I come back she is so excited she actually hyper-ventilates and I have to sit with her until she has calmed down.
We all face storms in life. It’s not whether we will but when we will. What’s important is how we deal with them. Life’s storms have a way of bringing out what is in us. Are we dealing with storms with fear or faith?
Many prophets are saying 2024 is going to be a bumpy ride with many difficulties. We will see and hear things that will shock us. But, the key is where we keep our focus. Will we look at the problems around us or keep our focus on Jesus? No matter what comes in 2024 and beyond if we focus on Jesus -the only stable thing in life. We will be at peace.
As with anything in life it’s tempting to give up when life is beating us up. It’s also the easiest thing to do and wallow in self-pity. That’s what satan wants us to do. God has different plans for us during and after the storm.
When we keep our eyes on Jesus. He will be the anchor of our faith, no matter how severe our challenges are. When life looks threatening, it can be a challenge to trust God. After all, why does God allow storms in our life.
We stay in peace when we keep our eyes on Jesus, the champion who initiates and perfects our faith. If we look at Jesus it was because of the Joy that was awaiting Jesus, He endured the cross, disregarding its shame. He is now seated in the place of honor beside God’s throne. Think about the hostility He endured from sinful people. The pain and suffering was for us. Somehow I think of that I do not become weary and give up.
By focusing on Jesus, we automatically take them off our problems and what’s going on in the world today. Hebrews 12 tells us that Jesus is the perfect of our faith. So we don’t have to worry about how to trust God, as long as long as we focus on Jesus.
Often storms come into our lives to test us, and through them, we learn to trust God. When we observe the strength of Jesus we do not become weary and give up. I think about Jesus’s strength He kept during all the challenges of His life on earth.
It is crucial to keep our eyes on Jesus, especially this year otherwise we won’t see what’s beyond the storms. God holds the future in His hands, and that alone should encourage us not to give up in our personal storms are well as the storms of the world. So during these times of great trials when you begin to wonder and question why God is allowing whatever trials of faith that is currently going on, keep your focus on Jesus and be a peace. Remember that Romans 8:28 says,
“For those who live God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to His purpose.”
There’s something I learned a long time ago. God will only release life-changing blessings in our lives if we pass certain obedience tests. They are different for all of us. We can trust Him with our lives, He is our anchor in every storm. Instead of wallowing in self-pity and holding on to our fears, it is important to make the choice to let go and reach for Jesus, the anchor of our souls, it is then we will see the future God has prepared for us,
We can think of Peter when he walked on water but started sinking immediately when he took his eyes of Jesus he looked a the waves around him. Focusing on the storm paralyzed us, which oftentimes leads to disaster.
“This hope we have as an anchor of the soul, a hope both sure and steadfast and entering into that which is within the veil“ – Hebrews 6:19
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