It’s sometimes hard to know when someone is lying. There have been several books developed to help us spot lies by studying body language, eye flickers, facial expressions, voice pitch, among other things. But good liars can even fool polygraph machines.
Psychology tells us there are simply no behavioral cues that can reliably indicate when someone is lying. Researchers have searched high and low for such cues for decades. And the best anyone has come up with is a small number of behavioral cues that are extremely unreliable.
But don’t abandon all hope just yet. There actually are some fairly effective ways to detect liars. It’s not by trying to read body language. The real secret is to listen carefully to what’s being said.
Lying is nothing more than communicating false information. We have to pay attention to the information we’re told, see if it aligns with reason, with evidence, and with what we know or can learn. We have to ask questions and see if the story stands up to scrutiny.
While that’s good advice when suspect a person is lying. It’s also how to deal with the never-ending lies that Satan tells us. He’s an expert liar. Satan never tells the truth, he’s a master at twisting the truth. If we’re not careful Satan can prompt us to lie to ourselves, often without realizing it.
We’ve all called our self stupid for doing things, or even had people tells us lies about ourselves. They say if a lie is repeated long enough we will start to believe it. Especially if you were told things that weren’t truth as an impressionable child. That is part of Satan’s master plan. Tell lies long enough and we will begin to believe it as the truth.
Satan is so cunningly deceptive that we instinctively believe what we whispers in our ears.
He loves to tells us these 4 things constantly,
1.God doesn’t want me to be happy
One of Satan’s worst lies is telling us God isn’t the source of happiness; that He’s a hinderance to it. “All I really want is to be happy, I don’t care what it costs, I only want to be happy.” Isn’t that the desire of literally billions of people?
It’s ironic that according to the Bible, God made us in Him image, He loves us, we are His handiwork and craftsmanship, and He longs to fill our lives with joy. Yet most people reject Him and go off looking for happiness on their own. Psalm 8 tells us who we are in Christ. It’s no mistake that only the truth of Gods word can wash Satan’s lies from our minds.
I find that even often 30 plus years, and being a follower of Christ, I can still hear my Satan’s lies haunting my head from childhood. At what point can all the pain disappear from my head and I completely rely on who God says I am. I’m afraid it’s a never ending battle. But the key is to not give up. To never let Satan win.
2. I’m no good
Satan wants us to think that we are no good. If you often feel this way because of the faults and regrets that haunt you satan has you where he wants you. He loves to damage our self-image by comparing ourselves to others. Admittedly without the grace of God we are warped and ruined by lies that cause us to sin. But, Jesus placed a high value on us. He died and rose again for us. With Christ with in us, there is only one “no good” we need to claim -the promise in Psalm 84:11: “No good thing will He withhold from those who walk upright.”
When Satan is telling us we are no good. Psalm 84 combats Satan’s distortions, and reassures us of our value and uncover fresh blessings from the Heavenly Father.
3. I’m a failure
Another fabrication of Satan is that we are all failures. While we all fail at times, that act doesn’t translate into who we are. In Christ, we are who view failures as a learning experience and as opportunities to find God’s best plan for our lives. Psalm 73:26 says, “My flesh and my heart my fail; but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever.”
When adversity strikes as it always does refocus your determination and try again. Commit to making each day better than the one before. Then do it again the next day. In the long run, people care far more about who you are that what you do.
Reading Psalm 73 every time Satan is hissing failure in your ears. David struggled with a sense of failure and frustration, but he overcame the lies with God’s truth saying,
“My heart was grieved, and I was vexed in my mind. I was so foolish and ignorant; I was like a beast before you. Nevertheless I am continually with you. You hold me by my right hand. You guide me with your counsel, afterward receive me to glory. When have I in heaven but you? And there is none upon earth that I desire besides you. My flesh and my heart fail; but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever” – Psalm 73:21-26.
4. I can’t overcome this temptation
In addition to Satan’s other lies, he is a master at deceiving us with self-destructive habits. He wants us to say we cannot overcome temptations.
To counter that lie Psalm 51 is a great prayer of David’s confession after his moral failure that we can use to implore forgiveness. In Psalm 51:12 David prayed,
“Restore to me the joy of your salvation, and uphold me by your generous Spirit.“
We can’t withstand temptation in our own str, but God forgives us, restores our joy, and then upholds us by His generous Spirit. He will uphold you in temptation. Accepting this truth will set you free from Satan’s debilitating lies.
We have to learn to not listen to a single word from Satan because lying is hiss native language. When we learn to spot his lies and to counter each one with the brilliant truth of God’s infallible Word.

