Stop Feeding The Negative

Many people are say, addicted to negative thinking. The mind only response to the vibration and interest, in other words, the mind does not have a life of its own, but it does gather momentum from your attention.

Through constant attention to negative thoughts we give momentum to the negative in our minds, and then it feels like you’re mine has a life of its own and that is sneaking negative thoughts constantly.

There’s a way to get freedom of their negative thoughts and even negative situations we find ourselves in.

Stop feeding it.

The first step for freedom of negative anything it should become contents of our own dysfunctional movement towards feeding negativity.

There are many people who defend this habit of thinking negative thoughts by stating that they are just being “realistic.” They feel like they are only being “truthful,” When they think negatively about life or the world in general. it is possible to feel guilty for thinking a positive thought, or a thought of well-being. The truth is that whenever we align ourselves with negative thoughts, we align ourselves against life, because life cannot support you in a negative thought.

I read once the reason we feel bad when we have a negative thought is because, in that moment, we are pulling away from the vibration of life, or the whole of us. When we are disconnected from the vibration of life (which is based on love and joy), we end up, creating a reality that is based on fear and lack. So when we are thinking a negative thought we are not being a realist, we are being a hinderer of our well-being.

Negative thinking is a habit. Like any addiction, negative thinking gather a momentum with daily use. You may be a person who has been predominantly, thinking negative thoughts since your childhood, so now you become deeply addicted to the habit of negative thinking so much that you start feeling a loss of “identity,” when you are trying to align with joy and love.

Negative thinking is a highly dysfunctional addiction because it causes us to stay connected with life itself and keep us rooted in reality that perpetuates suffering.

We have to be willing to let go of our defensiveness and acknowledge our negative thinking is the only reason for the negative reality we are living. The more we start becoming conscious of this dysfunctional habit the more it slows down in momentum. This takes some time, but it’s worth it.

When I began the process of getting rid of this habit, I also felt as loss of identity. I was thought how to only think negative thoughts from childhood, so it was a hard habit to break. But if your patient with yourself and allow this process to happen, you mindfully dissolves, the momentum, it has gathered to the attention of negative thinking.

Favorite Sports

What are your favorite sports to watch and play?

Most people have a favorite sport to play and watch. But I don’t really like sports. It is something that never interested me.

My son played baseball as a child. And I was happy to be there for every game. Playing baseball helps with eye and hand coordination and teaches you how to react quickly.

My daughter bowled she loved it, so much I purchased her a bowling ball and shoes at a young age. I was there every time she had a game. I know some people had a different views on whether bowling is a sport or not.

These are the only sports I ever watched or played. And I did so for my children.

Overcoming Disappointment And Reclaiming Your Destiny

Disappointment can be a subtle yet powerful enemy of our progress. It can creep into our hearts, severing our connection with any faith we have and derail our purpose. Many people have fallen prey to its destructive power and were unaware of the danger lurking beneath the surface.

At its core, disappointment is not just a fleeting emotional response, but a state of mind that can have far-reaching consequences. When we allow disappointment to take root in us, it can lead to a disconnect from our destiny both in life and spiritually. The future God has planned for us begins to fade and is replaced by a sense of hopelessness and despair.

Satan is well aware of the devastating impact of disappointment. He cleverly manipulates circumstances that create an environment conducive to vulnerabilities, and fostering unbelief. When we dwell on our past hurts and failed expectations, our hearts become increasingly disconnected from any plan God has for us. Our once clear vision of our lives becomes dim, and our soul withers.

So, how do we break free from the grip of disappointment and reclaim our rightful place in God’s plan?

The answer lies in living by faith, even in the darkest times. I’m reminded of Matthew 17:20 where Jesus says,

“Truly I tell you, if you have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mountain, move from here to there, and it will move. Nothing will be impossible for you.”

Faith is the key to unlocking our destiny. We must learn to reject disappointment, forgive those who have wronged us, and repent of our own shortcomings. When we do the healing power of the Holy Spirit, can restore our connection with God and revive our vision for our destiny.

If you are harboring disappointment in your heart you can allow the Holy Spirit to remove the weight of it from your life. It’s important to repent of any unbelief or bitterness that may be holding you back. Remember that your appointment with your destiny is still set. Don’t let disappointment stand in the way of fulfilling your God-given destiny.

Having A Heart Like King David’s

When we read Psalms in the Bible it’s almost impossible not to hear David’s heart. We can understand and see his deep devotion, genuine faith, and complete reliance on God.

David was committed to God’s will despite his flaws and mistakes, he expressed his love for God by his trust through prayer and worship throughout the Psalms.

David’s life is marked by a profound commitment to God, even during challenging times, which showcased his genuine love and reliance.

David portrays himself as a humble servant of God, readily acknowledges his imperfections, and gives credit to God for his victories.

Many of the Psalms are attributed to David and are powerful expressions of his heart, encompassing praise, lament, and Thanksgiving, which offers us a window into his intimate relationship with God.

David was authentic in his prayer life, where he openly expressed his thoughts, feelings, and needs to God.

This year I want to strive to be like David. I think about how many times I have been struggling with something, getting frustrated then it’s like a lightbulb goes off in my head “Ask God.”

Here are a few applications I am going to apply to my life:

Winning The Lottery

What would you do if you won the lottery?

If I won a huge amount on the lottery. I would payoff my bills and buy a house with some acreage near a bench. I would probably be driving my old blue jeep.

I’m not into fancy cars. And I couldn’t get to the mountains to feed my soul every now then would probably not be a very happy person.

I would help my children if they needed it, and just a comfortable life after that. Money would not change who I am. I would still do the things I am doing now.

Books

What books do you want to read?

I have been wanting to read a few books from Rick Renner. He is a highly respected Bible teacher and is very scholarly in his knowledge of the Greek language.

The Last Days Survival Guide by him has sparked my attention and also Living In The Combat Zone.

No Other Name

Only in Christ has God taken upon Himself the worst that could ever happen between God and man: He has allowed Himself to be rejected.

Is Jesus the sweetest name you know?

There are many aspects, reasons, facts, characteristics, and events that make the name of Jesus the sweetest.

There is no salvation in any other, there is no other name under heaven given among anyone by which we must be saved ( Acts 4:13) -paraphrased.

Philippians 2:10-11 says,

“That at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, of those in heaven, and of those on earth, and of those under and earth.” And that every tongue should confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.”

Think about that for a minute, and this day and age of “tolerance” and “all paths leave to heaven” it is not popular claim such exclusively. Jesus is set apart by His inclusive and very exclusive no other claim the “every knee will bow to Him” and every tongue confess” that He is Lord and that only His name leads to salvation. Not exactly a recipe for popularity with the human race.

If you want to be hated and persecuted, proclaim that every person will bow and call Jesus Lord, in that hell waits for all who rejects Him.

Jesus must not have been informed that He shouldn’t force His religion on others, or claim to be the only truth. Ironically, Jesus won’t force anyone to accept Him during this lifetime. His grace, His mercy, His offer of eternal life is a gift for whoever believes (John 11:26). But, they will come a time when the name of Jesus will be forced on every person who did not embrace it willingly during their earthly life, not as a gift, but as a reality. And every knee will bow and tongue will confess that Jesus is Lord.

Unfortunately, the name of Jesus will not be sweet for those forced to bow and forced to confess. The truth of Jesus’s power will be known and apparent even to the loss the moment they set eyes on the King of Kings, every time will confess because the reality of His Lordship will be known to all creatures on that day, the lost Will bow and compass, sincerely and with complete conviction, but it will be too late for them.

Those who reject the name of Jesus in this life, far from being sweet, the name of Jesus will be terrorizing, agonizing, and torturous. it will represent the Name at which a lost chance of salvation will be forever gone and a justified eternal condemnation will be imminent. Hell will be unavoidable and a single step away. The name of Jesus will be the last name uttered before being cast into the lake of fire for eternity. Every person entering hell will fool realize their only hope was in Jesus.

The name of Jesus will be finally and willingly uttered by every person, but for the lost, the sweetest name will forever remain the rejected name.

This is all kind of scary, fire, and brimstone stuff isn’t it? How does that make His name the sweetest to us now? Because in His mercy and through His sacrifice, we know His name now, while there is still time to accept Him, to worship, honor and glorify the Name of Jesus.

While we were still sinners, without hope He revealed to us the sweetest name, that through His sacrificed blood, we have the opportunity to be saved from God‘s righteousness and just wrath. We deserve death -eternal death. Well, I think about that, but I deserve eternal death and separation from the God whose holiness I have violated. But God has given us the complete and extreme opposite.

Jesus‘s name represent how God loves us, despite of what we deserve. Jesus, his name represents the only way to eternal life and because of God’s unfathomable love. He chose to reveal Jesus’s name to us, opening our eyes to the truth that saves us and set us free.

The name of Jesus is the sweetest because we can bow to Him now out of love and gratitude with no need to be forced to bow later. We can confess His name now because He so loved us first and through that great love has chosen to draw us to His sweet name while salvation is still an option.

Family Traditions

Write about a few of your favorite family traditions.

My family comes from Hungary. My grandparents came by ship to escape the holocaust.

Hungarians are known for their pride in their culture, language, and hospitality. Here are few things my family traditions I have valued growing up that I do to this day.

  • Always making eye contact with someone you’re speaking with. It is considered polite and sincere.
  • It’s polite to bring a small gift, like flowers, or chocolates, or food when we are invited to someone’s house.

When Pride Is A Sin

Pride, is viewed by many as the “core of all sin.” It is a complicated aspect of human nature that when left unchecked, can lead us away from our faith and purpose. For this reason, knowing the difference between healthy self-esteem and sinful pride is crucial.

The significant pride in the Bible cannot be overstated. The word is intricately tied to the concept of the seven deadly sins.

Satan viewed himself as glorious instead of what he actually was, a reflection of God’s glory. Proverbs 16:18 says,

“Pride goes before destruction, a haughty spirit before a fall.”

So why is pride so strongly warned against in the Bible? Why is pride a sin? is it always a sand to feel proud of something you have a accomplished? It’s important to understand what precisely is the pride that God hates. God hates pride of self righteousness or conceit. God hates it mainly because pride hinders a persons desire to seek and find the one through God.

We cannot love God and be proud of the same time. He hates those who want to be higher than anyone or above Him.

The pride that turns us away from God and believing we can do everything independently. Human pride that thinks lives would be much better without God.

Satan’s pride caused him to desire to be higher than God. He rebuilt against God because he was not happy with the position God had entrusted to him. He wanted to raise his throne above the stars of God and become the Highest. (Isaiah 14:12-14).

Satan was regarded as the most beautiful all God’s creations. The Bible describes Satan as the seal of perfection, full of wisdom and perfect in beauty. God anointed him to become a guardian cherub. He was blameless in his ways from the day he was created until pride got in his way. (Ezekiel 28:12-15).

God exile him and the other angels with him from heaven. But Satan did not stop his ambitions and tempted Adam and Eve in the garden of Eden. It was the beginning of having pride in humans. It started thinking we could be better than God.

Pride can only hurt us and steal the wonderful things that God has prepared for us. In other words, being humble before the God has more benefits than allowing Satan to instill pride in us.

when we humble ourselves before God and not let pride come our way, we experience real happiness. It is the kind of satisfaction that only God can give. The kind of happiness that nothing this world could ever offer.

Pride destroys our relationship with God and others. If we look closely we can see who are full of sinful pride in the world.

  • Pride is a secret fondness to be noticed
  • Pride is a love of supremacy
  • Pride is drawing attention to yourself in every conversation
  • Pride is enjoying, and being flattered
  • Pride is a swelling of one self
  • Pride is loving to have your name at the top of the list
  • Pride is when the praise of men is more important than the praise of God

Proverbs 8:13 tells us what pride God hates,

“ I hate pride and arrogance, evil behavior, and perverse speech.”

Proverbs 13:10 tells us,

“Pride only breeds quarrels, but wisdom is with people who take advice.”

If you look carefully, you will realize that every single sin in the Bible traces back to one or all of the three activities of focusing on ourselves.

Self-reliance – “ if I have a problem, I don’t need you or anyone else to help. I can take care of myself. This is a superiority complex

Self-Centeredness – “ I will take from you to me all my wants and needs. I am more important than you are.” This is also a superiority complex

Self-Condemnation – “ I would love to do things for God, but I’m not worth much. I can’t do much. God‘s not interested in using me.” This is an inferiority complex.

Pride ruins our ability to fulfill the greatest commandment – to love God and love others.

C.S. Lewis wrote,

“There is one vice of which no man in the world is free, which everyone loathes when he sees it in someone else, and of which hardly anyone imagined that he is guilty.”

People admit that they are bad tempered, cowards, jealous, and bitter. But few excuse themselves of pride.

Most people do not consider themselves proud or vulnerable to pride. Yet it is one of the major categories of sin in the Bible. And it is in each of our hearts.

Leisure Time

What do you enjoy doing most in your leisure time?

My leisure time usually involves going for a walk or a drive with music or simply just reading a book.

Anything to help me recharge my physical and mental health. Anything that reduces my stress level, enhancing my creativity is good.

Leisure time is important because it usually involves the social, cognitive, and physical aspects of life.

Mind Renewing Truths About God

What are some of the truths about God that King David chose to mediate on and pray back to Him? we know that God is a God who wants to be thirsty after and who rewards those who seek after Him.

There are seven truths that come out of Psalm 63 for renewing your mind.

1. God is a God who wants to be thirsted after and rewards those who seek after Him.

“God, You are my God, I will earnestly seek You. My soul thirsts for You. My flesh longs for You, in a dry and weary land, where there is no water” -Psalm 61:1

“Without faith, it is impossible to please God, for He who comes to God must believe that He is and He is a rewarder of those who seek Him” -Hebrew 11:6

2. God is a God of all power and glory.

“So I have seen You in the sanctuary, watching Your power and Your glory” -Psalm 63:2

“Blessed be the Lord God, the God of Israel, who alone works wonders. And blessed be His glorious name forever, and may the whole earth be filled with His glory. Amen, and Amen” -Psalm 72:18-19

3. God is a God of Loving kindness (grace) which is better than life itself.

“I will be glad and rejoice in Your loving kindness, for You have seen my affliction. You have known my soul in adversities. You have not shut me up into the hand of my enemy. You have set my set in a large place” -Psalm 31:7-8

4. God is a God who satisfies our souls.

“My soul is satisfied as with marrow and fatness” -Psalm 63:5

“How precious is Your loving kindness, O’ God! And the children of men take refuge in the shadow of Your wings. They drink their fill of the abundance of Your house, and You give them to drink of the river of Your delights. For with You is a fountain of life. In Your light we see light” -Psalm 36:7-9

5. God is our helper.

“For You have been my help. I will rejoice in the shadow of Your wings”-Psalm 63:7

“What profit is there in my blood, if I go down into the pit? Will the dust praise You? Will it declare Your faithfulness? Hear O’ Lord, and be gracious to me, O’ Lord, be my helper” -Psalm 30:9-10

6. God is our strength, my defense, and our life support system.

“My soul stays close to You. Your right hand holds me up. But those who seek my soul, to destroy it, shall go into the lower parts of the earth. They shall be given over to the power of the sword. They shall be jackal food” -Psalm 63:8-10

“The Lord is my strength and song. He has become my salvation. The voice of rejoicing and salvation is in the tents of the righteous. The right hand of the Lord does valiantly. The right hand of the Lord is exalted! The right hand of the Lord does valiantly. I will not die, but live, and declare the Lord’s works” -Psalm 118:14-17

7. God is a God of truth and justice.

But the king shall rejoice in God. Everyone who swears by Him will praise Him, for the mouth of those who speak lies shall be silenced” -Psalm 63:11

“You have a mighty arm. Your hand is strong, and Your right hand is exalted. Righteousness and justice are the foundation of Your throne. Loving kindness and truth go before Your face. Blessed are the people who learn to acclaim You. The walk in the light of Your presence, Lord” -Psalm 89:13-15

Meditating on God will result in a heart filled with praise for Him. His gracious and faithful character, and Hid might works. It also fortifies our faith and gives us inner strength to press on in the midst of difficult times.

Fighting Your Fears

Everyone has fears. Some of them are very common, like spiders, heights, needles, or small spaces. Others might be unique. Some people find their fears interfere in their day to day lives. They might not do certain activities to avoid anything that frightens them.

For example, I have a family member who fears trains, and buses which sometimes interferes with her getting together with family.

There are ways to help people, cope with their day-to-day fears.

It’s difficult to think clearly when you were scared or anxious. But if you can, take time out to physically calm down.

Try getting away from what upsetting you, staying away from certain situations for at least 15 minutes.

I used to have fear and panic attacks being around large groups and small areas. Almost like if I was claustrophobic. I left the room walked around until I calmed down.

When we are in panic mode because of fear our . Stay where you are and let yourself feel the fear, even though it is uncomfortable. Placing the palm of your hand on your stomach and breathing slow and deeply. Causes I said, get our mind used to coping with the panic which takes away the fear of feeling panicky.

Avoiding what we fear only makes them worse. Gradually exposing yourself to the thing you are scared of and help you maintain control and overcome the fear.

If you face the fear, you might find that it isn’t as scary as you thought. For example, if you panic getting on a bus is best to get back on a bus for next day.

The anxiety we get from fear isn’t harmful. Anxiety and fear can feel overwhelming. Someone may worried that the signs of anxiety and panic like a fast heartbeat our signs of a serious health problem. 

These concerns can make anxiety and fear worse.  so it’s important to remember that it’s our bodies response to fear and it’s normal. It’s designed to protect you from danger.

It sometimes helps to Challenge your negative thoughts. We have the power to change our thoughts. Negative thoughts can set us in a pattern of all-or-nothing mode. Seeing things in black or white. Such as viewing yourself as a total failure if your life isn’t perfect. And overgeneralization like seeing a single negative event as a never-ending defeat or pattern.

There is something called catastrophizing which is a cognitive distortion that involves exaggerating the negative consequences of events or decisions.

One of the biggest flaws I have found myself in is always trying to be perfect. I grew up always trying to please my mother, because of the negative consequences I would face if I didn’t. My thought pattern was focused on “must” or “should” thoughts constantly. Thinking this way only caused more fear and anxiety. I had no compassion for myself. I was downright brutal on myself. Which led to no happiness at all.

Learning to identify my negative thoughts, and even to challenge my thoughts allowed me to replace my negative thoughts with positive more realistic ones. Practicing acceptance and mindfulness helped me to build self-awareness.

Building a support network in your life can be a valuable asset to share your thoughts and also having someone who can listen without judgment.

Negative thoughts can become a defense mechanism that protects us from things not working out. But they can also prevent us from putting our best foot forward.