Knowing Yourself Is The Beginning Of All Wisdom.

To truly know yourself is the most important skill you can ever possess. When you know who you are, you know what you need to do, instead of looking for permission from others to do what you already know you ought to do. It allows you to bypass tons of frustration caused by putting time into the wrong things. Yes, life is supposed to be full of trials and errors, but that lets you find the best areas for you to experiment with in the first place. Once you know yourself, you will become more confident, you will understand your purpose, and you begin making a bigger impact on the world.

So how can you know who you are and what you ought to do in life? Here are some steps you need to take in order to know your true self.

Be Quiet.

You cannot and will not be able to know yourself until you take the time to be still. Many people don’t know themselves because any sort of silence scares them; it’s too uncomfortable to be alone with every flaw staring at them. But it isn’t until you get alone, that you can elevate yourself and are completely truthful with yourself that you will actually be able to see every facet of your life- the good and the bad. Be quiet and discover your true self.

Realize who you truly are, not what you want to be.

I know you already have a set idea of who you desperately want to be, but it might not be who you were designed to be, this is why knowing who you really are is so important. When you know who you are m you will finally see where you and your gifts fit into the bigger picture.

And although there are many points along your jour to help you discover yourself, the best way to begin is to take a personality test and the Strength Finder test. These self-evaluations aren’t perfect, but they do pinpoint your top areas of strengths, so you can focus on the change you were meant to bring to the world

Find what you are good at (and not what your good at).

This might be the most difficult step in the process of finding who you are, but it’s a necessary one. Sure, it takes trial and error to find at what you’re good at, a d no. I don’t want you to give up before you’ve had more than enough attempts, but knowing when to quit is a gift that everyone needs to learn.

Quit when you’ve put ample time and your efforts aren’t giving back in return. What is ample time? Only you can decide that. But when you quit correctly, it isn’t giving up, it’s making room for something better. When your actions do nothing but drain you- rather than drive to do more, that’s a good sign it is time to focus elsewhere. Your strengths will show you who you are.

Find what you are passionate about.

Following passions of any kind is a good thing, and you need to pay attention when it comes because it indicates an area of life you need to pay more attention to. If we’re talking about following your passion for work it’s a good thing. And if we’re talking about having more passion for life, it’s a good thing. Focus more on passion; understand yourself in better ways, and you’ll make a bigger impact. Passion produces effort and continuous effort produces results.

Ask For Feedback.

If you don’t know yourself, hearing what others have to say about you is a helpful practice. Ask them to simple questions: What strengths do you think I need to develop further? And What weaknesses do you think I need to work on? Of course, their opinion isn’t going to be perfect, but their feedback will probably indicate a few areas you should at least take a second look at. This step is especially important for those who are stuck in finding themselves. Sometimes those closest to us can see something we might not be able to see ourselves.

Assess your relationships.

A large aspect of knowing yourself can be found in your relationships. When you realize you’ll never truly know anyone else until you discover yourself, the importance of know yourself becomes more apparent. This truth especially rings true for business leaders, because if you don’t know the people on your team, then you will be lost as a leader. But this rule also applies to any relationship in your life. Almost as much as you need to know yourself, other people also need to know who you are. People need you- the real you.

Use your reflections to fight your biggest fears, because when you understand who you are meant to be, your purpose will finally become bigger than your fears. When you realize who you are, you will spend less time spinning your wheels. Focusing on your strengths gives you the needed traction to begin making a bigger and better difference in the world. When you know yourself, you will find more peace, and you will find success quicker than ever before.

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