Today there is more pressures than we can keep up with. There are more to agree or disagree with. Because of this we are scared to express our opinions or may not even know how to share our opinions the right way without hating the other party. If you say something the other person disagree with they immediately hate you, threat you, or attack you.
Disagreeing with someone shouldn’t mean you have to hate them, yes hate the idea, lifestyle, or belief but don’t hate the person.
Some people disagree with certain issues also hate the group that believes other wise. If you don’t agree with something that the group is doing don’t hate the group.
It is bad idea is to beat people up, if they don’t have the same opinion.
We need to disagree politely, Don’t cause an argument that is unnecessary. State your beliefs and why they are good.
In some cases you can’t stay away from an argument. so learn the best way to diffuse the situation. Walk away if you have to.
I’m my case it’s a family member that constantly wants to start an argument over different views and value systems. I have walked away as much as I can. I believe this situation is going to result in a nasty argument. Causing deep cuts to someone’s feelings. I have tried to agree to disagree with her, but that’s not what she wants.
Here are some phases you can use when disagreeing.
- I disagree with that idea but I don’t hate the people that are involved
- Understand this I disagree with your/they’re beliefs but I don’t hate them.
Depending on what the persons belief is you may not want spend much time around them. If it’s a family member try and stay in another room as much as possible.
Always show them respect regardless of they’re lifestyle or belief.
Drawing the line
Whether you like it or not your going to get pushed into some compromising situations where people want your beliefs to bend.
Kindly but boldly state your beliefs, maybe saying “well that’s wrong. But don’t comprise once you do, they will think you will do it again.
Make sure you love the person but not their ideas.
I love the verses in the Bible, it’s in 1 Corinthians 13:1-7 in the message Bible. If I speak with human eloquence and angelic ecstasy but I don’t love , I’m nothing but the creaking gate. If I speak God’s word with power, revealing all his mysteries and making everything plain as day, and if I have faith that’s says to a mountain “Jump,” and it jumps, but I don’t love, I’m nothing. If I give everything I own to the poor and even go to the stake to be burned as a martyr, but I don’t love, Ive gotten nowhere. So no matter what I say, what I believe and what I do, I’m bankrupt without love.
Love never gives up. Love cares more for others that for self. Love doesn’t strut, doesn’t have a swelled head. Doesn’t force itself on others. Isn’t always me first, doesn’t fly off the handle, doesn’t keep score of the sins of others, doesn’t revel when others grovel. Takes pleasure in the flowering truth, puts up with anything, trust in God always. Never looks back. But keeps going to the end.