Attract What you expect, reflect what you desire become what you respect, mirror what you admire.


The beauty of a woman is not in the clothing she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. True beauty is a woman is reflected in her soul.- Audrey Hepburn.

Attract What expect, reflect what you desire, become what you respect, mirror what you admire.”

Let’s take a closer look at this quote.

Attract what you Expect: Your thoughts are powerful they are vibrational and they create movements, revolutions, and global changes. If your thoughts are that powerful. We should begin practicing and choosing to hold ones that are uplifting and will create ripples of love and strength. The thoughts you focus on are what can manifest in your life. You are deserved of good things. Expect good things.

Reflect what you desire: You may be one of those women who have criteria for an ideal mate. I know many women that have done this. None of are perfect. But what is you want a man a man perfectly fit with great abs. Then you need to learn how to meal prep and go to some yoga classes or Pilates class a couple times a week. We become the reflection of whom we desire. If you go to the local bar to find a mate your going to find a drinker there. Would you like a drinker as a mate.

Become what you respect: Surround yourself with motivated, inspiring and loving people. Choose a mentor that can add value to your life. We all need mentorship. All the world’s leaders has a mentor an accountant-ability partner someone’s who will ignite passion in them or encourage them to stay on course when the roads gets rocky. When I see someone I respect I learn from them.

Mirror what you admire: Audrey Hepburn in someone I’ve always admired. My father named me after her sister Katherine. I also admire old films, how the actresses carried themselves. Being graceful, poised, polished and refined are examples of actions I admire. By being mindful of our actions, and authentic self with polite behavior is far more admiring. Then be a reactor who fake and rude.

This can be mirrored by sitting or standing up straight, listening without interrupting, remembering to say please and thank you, choosing an appropriate dinner conversation, being mindful of the company that’s around the table and always having good manners. These are all great habits and behavior is important to how we treat others.

I few years ago I met a lady that was very negative about herself and others. She would say how terrible things were in her life someone did this to me someone did that. Don’t get wrong she was kind and friendly enough. She was just negative. When I told her to think positive she would smile and then keep on with the negative words. After a few failed relationships she began you realize she needed to change. You cannot have a negative attitude all the time and expect positive things to happen in your life. Positive thoughts and words create positive things. Negative thoughts create negative things.