You are what you think.
If you are only thinking about your problems and sorrows. That’s exactly what you are going to attract in your life.
Change your perspective and start thinking about solutions and opportunities, you are sending vibrations to attract an abundance of them.
It isn’t until I realized this and started changing my perspective that my life changed.
Just like you are what you eat, you are what you think.
Instead of complaining about all the things you don’t have be happy for the things you have.
Yesterday my car started having problems. I took it to a mechanic and he told me I had worse problems than I thought I had. I wouldn’t have believed him, but he is a close friend.
I was a total wreck yesterday I was stressed out and caused myself a migraine. I have to depend on my car for the type of wages and helping people.
So of course I did something irrational. I got drunk. Its been probably 10 years since I had a drink. Not a wise choice on my part but, I did it and I probably won’t do it again for many years.
Yesterday my perspective was “Oh no what am I going to do now?” Well to answer my own question, I’m going to find out what all is wrong with it, (put an amount on it. And work on getting it fixed.
We all accumulate a lot off negativity in our lives. And when all that negativity fills up our life it can turn disastrous. People, relationships, personal life, Careers, routine, broken things whether it be cars and something wrong with our houses. Everything goes toxic but we tend not to do anything about it.
Say there’s a BMW on the road and behind it was a Suzuki behind it, then there was a couple on bikes and a few kids and a guy in a wheelchair trying to crossing the road. This story has 4 characters the BMW, the Suzuki, the bike a guy in a wheelchair, the couple on the bike were seduced by the want of BMW, the guy in the Suzuki was eyeing the some other car, and the guy in the wheelchair was looking at the kids. One can easily feel the want or desire in his eyes that he just wanted to walk.
In that moment, all there worries diminished. They all wanted something they didn’t have.
We always have a choice in how we view things.
Have you ever looked at unfortunate circumstances in your life and thought your going to get through this because you don’t have a choice? Easy one of us has many choices and we are exercising them everyday, every minute, and every second.
Let’s breakdown the different choices we make on a regular day:
Choice #1. You wake up at 6:00 AM so you can reach your work on time.
Choice #2. You take a vehicle or a bus, or a cab.
Choice #3. You take on extra work load to prove your competence, you already have a lot of work.
Choice #4. You help your kids with their homework despite being tired.
Choice #5. You get ready for bed at night and start thinking about your dreams when you fall asleep.
While it may not be in our hands to choose whatever happens in our life. The way we see it and react to it can make all the difference.
You can’t change the cards your dealt with, but you can change how you play them.Randy Pausch
You have the choice to be happy or sad, complain or express gratitude, smile or frown, be productive or procrastinate, be a victim or a victim. Just remember that you always have a choice and it begins by changing the way you look at things happening in your life.
The best way to change your life is to take ownership and act.
If you want anything, act.
Nothing is going to change if you aren’t willing to change yourself. Things aren’t going to change on their own. Be confident about yourself and take a leap of faith. Be a little proactive rather than being a victim by your situation.