When you learn to make reinventing yourself a habit, change doesn’t seem so scary.
When it comes to the topic of how to change your life or “reinvent yourself,” a lot of us believe that we only have up to a certain age to make meaningful changes.
And after that age or cut off point, we lose out chance and it all goes downhill.
Change your beliefs. If I can do it anyone can. I didn’t think I would ever be happy with my life, I felt like a complete failure. That there was no help for me.
But, if you set your mind to it, you can do it. It took me a great disappointment in my marriage before I changed but it doesn’t have to be that way for you.
Give Yourself Permission To Change.
How you change your life for the better starts
This is an obvious one but a lot of us fight change even when we say we want it. We hang on as tight as possible to what we know because we fear the unknown.
I thought if I tried to change my life my husband would leave me, then I would really be in a mess. Things needed to be the same of he wouldn’t love me.
The act of giving yourself permission to change doesn’t mean that you’ll lose everything. It only means that you’re okay with whatever else wants to come.
In my case I was so exhausted of fighting for what I thought my husband wanted. I was ready to give up. I couldn’t take anymore.
I packed a bag, and left while my husband was I worked, I was so ashamed of myself I could even face him to tell him I was leaving. I didn’t know where I was going. I just got in the car and starting south. 4 hours later after I stopped shaking and bawling my eyes out. I called my sister. And I started for her house.
Pay Attention To The Signs Of Change.
They say every 7 years a change in life happens. Some call it a life cycle. Some of us feel it and the rest ignore it. I don’t know if this is wat happened in my situations. But, pay close attention to this and usually spot a shift when the life cycle starts.
Usually, when it’s time for a change, I’ve noticed that little things signs start to happen that things need to change.
The signs of change usually start out as subtle things. But as you ignore them, they become bigger until bit feels like you have to push 20 times harder for the same results. It feels like your always pushing a boulder uphill.
Usually at this point this is where the world tells you to grit your teeth and push through it.
But when you’re working from the inside out, you’ll realize reason to grit your teeth for anything any longer.
I felt I was at the point I had nothing to lose.
There is always path of least resistance to every journey you want to take when your working with your innate intelligence.