Do you trust the process of life? If you want to reach your desired destination, you need to surrender to the process, no matter how difficult it is.
When we allow life to reveal itself to us, we live in the present moment, knowing that we are exactly where we’re supposed to be. Unfortunately, a lot of people jump to far forward I’m their desire to reach there final destination, they forget about the journey, but this is where the magic lies.
But life and comfort don’t co-exist into days world, nothing is permanent, ant at any moment life can throw you a curve ball that could change the game. When you trust the process, you accept and have faith in the unknown. You step outside your comfort zone and allow life to guide you along your journey.
Let go of fear and stop trying to control life. As your faith is strengthened you will find there is no longer the need to have a sense of control, that things will flow as they will, and that you will flow with them to your great delight and benefit. Are you ready to believe in yourself and trust the process?
Are you ready to get back up when life knocks you down?
What Is stopping you from trusting the process?
Fear can play a big role. A lot of people don’t like the process because they fear that it’s not going to lead them down the path that want. If they don’t seen results fast enough, they get discouraged and give up all together. People look too far froward and obsess about the end result. But, what about the small milestones that you need to take in order to reach your final destination?
There are four ways that you can learn to trust the process of life:
- Be Resilient. When faced with adversity it can be difficult to trust the process. Thoughts of “Why me” may surface, causing you to doubt your ability to move forward. This is the moment at which you need to thought stop. Why no you? Life happens to all of us, and it’s our responsibility to either rise above our circumstances or give up.
If you believe that everything is in your control drop that story now. Change is the only constant. Resilient people surrender to uncertainty. They understand that we have very little control what happens in life, and by adopting this mindset they have trust in the process.
I have learned over many years of trying to control my life. And being in constant worry over every little thing. Nothing was really ever control in my life. I was choosing to let it destroy me instead of trusting the process and worrying constantly for something I had no control of.
- Embrace The Unknown. Humans dislike ambiguity of any kind. Anything that doesn’t feel safe, stable, and comfortable feels dangerous. The fact of the matter is that we don’t know what life will throw at us, but if we embrace the unknown and get comfortable being uncomfortable, we will better prepared for anything.
There are no guarantees in life. Don’t predict the future. But, focus on what you can control which is the present moment. When you do you’ll be creating your life, moment by moment with zero attachments to what could be.
- Focus On Your Purpose. When in doubt focus on your purpose. Trusting the process is about accepting that hardships will happen along your journey to success, but having confidence that every lesson is bring you closer to fulfilling your purpose in life. Whether you want to believe it or not, failure is a good thing. It is proof that you were trying.
When you commit to being persistent and carrying on, despite the odds, the universe will reward you. I encourage you to adopt a positive mindset and find ways to appreciate every experience, both good and bad, that is bringing you one step closer to embodying your purpose. In order to love who you are, you cannot hate the experience that shaped you.
- Practice Gratitude. Our perspective on life dictates the thoughts that we feel and the decisions that we make. We all find ourselves dwelling on regrets that make us feel anxious but we need to focus on the good we are creating
We need to be able to snap out of ruminative thoughts of regret. And focus on the gratitude we have in life.
Once you trust process, your path in life becomes clearer.
Life is tough, but so are you. When you learn to trust the process and have gratitude for how far you’ve come, you will be abundantly rewarded. Why are you trying to go anywhere else, other that where you currently are?
Learn to fall in love with the here and now, knowing that life is going to give you exactly what you need if you are brave enough to ask for it.
Trust the process you will discover a lot about yourself through hardship.