Holding Grudges

Are you holding a grudge? About?

When people don’t hold grudges, a few powerful things tend to happen-both for the person and the relationship.

I have spent too much time in my life holding grudges. When I finally let it go, I received emotional freedom, which freed me from emotional energy.

I think that every one of us are responsible for ourselves. I take care of me and don’t worry about anyone else garbage

If someone gives me a reason to want to hold a grudge it simply tells me exactly who they are. At that time I can choose to stay or walk away. We all carry some garbage, and sometimes they spew that garbage that garbage on to us.

I let them carry their own garbage. I do not have to bleed for their wounds.

I have a general rule, I have low expectations on humans act a certain way. If they do then I’m good.

But, remember not holding grudges isn’t the same as tolerating mistreatment. My father always told me A lion doesn’t have to roar all the time, but when it does everyone listens. Act when it’s absolutely necessary. and your actions will be powerful.

Holding grudges doesn’t help anyone, it hurts the person holding the grudge the most.

The lesson: People will hurt you, but if you react they can continue. If you respond you are in control. Don’t give others power over your emotions.