Words or Phases that annoy people are usually known as trigger words, usually act on the brain because of experiences we’ve experienced.
My trigger phrase is “get over it.” It’s an invalidating phrase that says what someone is going through is of no importance. Instead of helping someone go on, it shuts down communication and increases frustration that makes a person feel unheard.
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