In a culture that thrives on contention and conflict, is it truly possible to be unoffendable?
Jesus told His disciples in Luke 17:1, “It’s impossible that no occasions of stumbling (offenses) should come, but woe to him through who, they come.”
Scripture clearly shows that throughout our lives, we will have ample opportunity to take the enemy’s bait and become offended.
But there is another option -we can prepare our hearts and exercise forgiveness so that when an opportunity for offense comes our way, we can be prepared to respond in a way that honors God.
We should choose patience, gentleness, and forgiveness instead of revenge. Listen before you speak. Do not get angry quickly. James 1:19 says, “Let every man be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to wrath.” Do not fight back or try to get revenge. Matthew 5:39 tells us to let go of the desire to punish the other person. We should overcome evil with good. Romans 1:21-22 tells us, “Knowing God, they didn’t glorify Him as God, and didn’t give thanks, but became vain in their reasoning, and their senseless heart was darkened. Professing themselves to be wise they became fools.” God will always reveal His invisible power and nature through the physical world. We should treat the person who hurts us with kindness. And use gentle words that calm their anger instead of harsh words that start fights. Proverbs 15:1-2 says,” A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger. The tongue of the wise commends knowledge, but the mouth of a fool gushes out folly.” Sometimes we need to walk away if the person is dangerous or refuses to listen, it’s better to leave the situation to protect our peace.
From Pity to Praise 