It’s no surprise I like to travel. I love to do road trips, so I can stop and see all the sights along the way. But to pick a city I would want to visit is tough. I guess if I had to choose a city to visit it would be Jerusalem, to see where Jesus walked. I would also like to visit Budapest, to see where my grandparents were born and raised.
Standing Firm

I’ve heard it’s been said that “life is a battlefield.” And if you’re a true follower of Jesus there are times when it feels like you’re being attacked in situations that can steal your joy, and weaken your faith.
Satan (the enemy) seeks to discourage us, distract us, and keep us from walking in the fullness of God’s purpose.
However, we are not defenseless.
The first thing to do is to recognize that we are experiencing a spiritual attack and not consequences of our own actions or bad behaviors.
The Bible equips us with practical tools to stand firm in the face of a spiritual attack and to overcome it.
There are biblical ways to overcome spiritual attacks.
- Pray: Our first line of defense
When we face a spiritual attack, the most powerful thing we can do is pray. Prayer isn’t just an act of speaking to God, it’s a weapon that can shift the spiritual atmosphere and bring heaven’s resources into our situations.
Ephesians 6:18 reminds us to pray in the Spirit on all occasions with all kinds of prayer and requests.
“With all prayer and requests, praying at all times in the Spirit, and being watchful to this end in all perseverance and requests for all the Holy ones.”
Prayer connects us to God’s strength, wisdom, and protection. When we feel like we are under attack we can pray for discernment to identify the source of the struggle we are suffering.
Pray for God’s peace to guard our hearts and minds. And prayer with the authority God had given us in Jesus’s name. And rebuke every scheme of “the enemy” and declare God’s promises over our lives.
When I’ve faced spiritual attacks in my own life, I’ve found that simply crying out to God, sometimes with no eloquence, just raw honesty, invites His presence to intervene. Remember, God is not distant ordisengaged. God is with us, and He hears every prayer that comes from the heart.
2. Speak and Believe Truth
Satan (the enemy) is known as the father of lies (John 8:44), and one of his primary tactics is to bombard us with falsehoods about who we are, who God is, and the situations we face. The antidote is speaking and believing God’s truth.
In Matthew 4, when Jesus was tempted in the wilderness, He overcame each attack by declaring the Word of God. We must do the same. When satan whispers His lies like “you’re not good enough,” respond with scripture, “I am fearfully and wonderfully made” (Psalm 139:14). When he does doubt, remind yourself of what God says in Jeremiah 29:11: “For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you.”
It’s important to memorize and meditate on Scripture so it’s readily available when we need it. Speak it aloud and let it take root in your heart. God’s Word is living and active, and it will strengthen your faith and shield you from the enemy’s attacks.
3. Choose Not to Fear
Fear is one of satan’s (the enemy’s) favorite weapons because it paralizes us and keeps us from trusting God. Yet over and over in scripture God commands us, Do not fear. Why? Because He is with us.
Isaiah 41:10 says, “Don’t you be afraid, for I am with you. Don’t be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you. Yes, I will help you. Yes, I will uphold you with the right hand of my righteousness.” When spiritual attacks come, choose to anchor yourself in God’s promises rather than succumbing to fear.
Choosing not to fear is an act of faith. It’s not denying the challenges you face but deciding to trust God’s sovereignty and goodness despite them. Speak to your fear and remind it of the power of the God you serve. Fear cannot co-exist with faith. When we keep our eyes on the One who calms the storm.
4. Let Go of Control
One of the hardest but most liberating things we can do during a spiritual attack is to let go of control. We often want to fix everything ourselves, but spiritual battles require spiritual weapons, not human solutions.
Proverbs 3:5-6 urges us to “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding, in all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight.” Surrendering control means acknowledging that we can not fight these battles on our own but trusting that God can and will fight for us.
Letting go doesn’t mean giving up, it means placing the situation in God’s hands and allowing Him to work in His way and timing. When we release control, we make room for God to move mightily on our behalf.
5. Watch God Work
When we’ve prayed, spoken truth, chosen faith over fear, and surrendered control, we can rest in the assurance that God is at work. Exodus 14:14 says, “The Lord will fight for you, you need only to be still.”
Spiritual attacks are not the end of the story. God uses them to refine us, strengthen our faith, and reveal His power. When we trust Him, we position ourselves to witness His faithfulness in ways we couldn’t have imagined. The testimonies of God’s deliverance not only build our faith but also encourage others to trust Him as well.
Watching God work requires patience and expectancy. It’s a time of hope that believes God is who He says He is and will do what He has promised. Be alert to the way He moves, sometimes it’s in dramatic ways, but often it is quiet and unexpected.
If you have to walk through a spiritual battle, I hope you remember these five steps: Pray, speak and believe the truth, choose not to fear, let go of control, and watch God work. Stand firm in your identity as a child of God, and trust that He is fighting for you.
The enemy may try to derail you, but, “greater is He who is in you than he who is in the world” (1 John 4:4).
Press on in faith, knowing that God’s power is perfected in your weakness. He will sustain you, protect you, and lead you into His peace that surpasses all understanding.
Keep your eyes on Jesus and take one step at a time. Victory is already yours in His name.
Prayer, Strength, And Faith

In this journey of life, challenges are inevitable. From personal struggles to global crises, everyone faces moments that test their resilience. For many prayers, strength and faith are not just abstract concepts, but powerful pillars that provide guidance, endurance, and hope in the midst of adversity. These elements when interwoven and interdependent offer a framework that helps people navigate through difficult circumstances with a sense of purpose, peace, and perseverance.
The Power of Prayer:
Prayer is a direct connection to God. Prayer, and its core may communicating with God. It is a sacred active surrender, a way to express our gratitude, seek guidance , and ask for help in times of trouble. Prayer becomes more than just a ritual, it transforms into a powerful weapon. it shifts one’s focus from the problem at hand to the larger picture, and connects a person to divine wisdom and peace.
It is in those moments of fear, uncertainty, or confusion, that prayer for provide a sense of solace. It is in the quiet moments of prayer that I find my clarity, direction, and strength. The simple act of pausing to pray can be a powerful reminder that we are not truly alone in our struggles. Prayer allows us to release our burdens and trust in a higher power that is at work.
Prayer is not limited to asking for things it’s about giving, thanks, and reflecting on our blessings, and recognizing that every moment is part of a greater plan. When faced with adversity, prayer helps anchor the soul and keeps us from being swept away by the chaos of life. It becomes a form of spiritual warfare that fortifies our spirit and enables us to stand firm in faith.
Strength through Faith:
Faith is the foundation on which strength is built. It’s the foundational strength that is essential for all other abilities, -physical, mental, and emotional. It’s the toughness, and confidence to achieve bigger goals.
Before you can have explosive power or speed, you need the underlining strength of faith to support those actions.
The Word of God is a powerful tool to developing inner strength. Scripture provides comfort, encouragement, and direction for the times of need. Scriptures like Isaiah 41:10, “So do not fear, for I am with you, do not be dismayed, for I am your God, I will strengthen you and helps you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand,” remind us that divine strength is available in every situation. When we’re faced with life uncertainty, those who turn to God’s Word as an anchor, know that God’s presence and power can sustain them.
Faith is not about ignoring reality, it’s about choosing to trust in God’s sovereignty, even when circumstances seem overwhelming. It is a quiet confidence that, though the storm may rage, the foundation remains firm. With faith as a bedrock believers are able to find strength and weak moments, drawing from the well that is deep and unending.
The Relationship between Prayer, Strength, and Faith.
The interconnectedness of strength, and faith creates a harmonious cycle in the life of a believer. Prayer strengthens, faith and faith, and turns, cultivating inner strength. Strengthen faith, empowers us to move forward, facing life challenges with courage and perseverance. Prayer is not only a means of communication with God, but it’s a spiritual practice that reinforces our trust and resilience in Him.
Prayer, strength, and faith are not abstract or passive concepts, they are the very tools that enable us to navigate through life’s storms with resilience and purpose. Prayer is a weapon that connects us to divine help, while strength and faith are the product of faith rooted in God’s Word. Together, these elements create an unbreakable foundation, enabling us to persevere, grow, and thrive despite life’s challenges. In a world filled with uncertainty, these pillars provide a sense of stability and hope.
Things People Say
I hope I will have a lasting impact by my actions, values,and contributions. I hope people say, I am a good listener. And that my kindness is contagious. People have told me I am strong and they admire my resilience.
Unity In One Purpose

“Conduct yourselves in a manner worthy of the gospel Christ, so that whether I come and see you or remain absent, I will hear about you that you are standing firm in one spirit, with one mind striving together for the faith of the gospel” -Philippians 1:27
Paul wrote the Philippians to both commend and instructed them. In Philippians 1:9, he said he was praying that their love would overflow and knowledge and discernment.
He exhorted them to conduct themselves in a manner worthy of the gospel and to stand firm in one spirit.
He wanted their faith to be firmly written in Jesus -and then to grow and spread to others.
Throughout the world, we have lost much of the unity of purpose that we should show to the world. We are too busy, focusing on the style of the worship, music, and traditions than the core substance of unity with Jesus Christ and each other.
Not every believer is pursuing holiness, and not every church is conducting itself in a manner worthy of the gospel. But there are ones who are extending a hand of fellowship and driving together to reach community for Jesus.
Jesus prayed for the church in John 17:21, “that all of them may be one, Father, just as you are in Me and I am in You. Mat they also be in us so that the world may believe that You have sent Me.”
The purpose of unity it not about church, it’s about knowing Jesus and having a relationship with Him. The church is where true believers get together and celebrate Jesus and have fellowship with other believers.
It’s about relationship over ritual.
I think it’s about time we focus on Jesus, and put the emphasis that Jesus is the way, the truth, and the life, not the church building or its activities.
It’s about living daily with Jesus that is seen in actions not in a church building, and a bunch of rules.
The role of the church is God‘s design. Scripture causes us to knit together in a community (the church) and minister to each other.
The church is like the body of Christ: individuals are less effective and nourished when they are cut off from it.
Gathering provides a place to learn, be strengthened, and see God‘s grace in action, despite our imperfections.
There is tension in the church today. The common frustration is that many people feel hurt. I am perfect people or actions within churches, leading people to say, “I love Jesus, but not the church.
The church is a place where we can build each other up. The call isn’t to abandon the law church, but she worked to build it up in love. While recognizing it’s important it’s accountable to Jesus‘s example.
It’s a place where imperfect people gather to create a community that focuses onfocused on Grace, support, and growth. Church is a hospital for sinners, not saints, where flaws should be expected, and people help each other stumble forward in faith. Where God uses people’s brokenness in his perfect plan. Which leads to shared vulnerability, encouragement, and shared testimony, despite disagreements or mistakes.
The church is a place for the broken. It isn’t about perfect people, but those who are hurting, seeking, and needing God‘s mercy, grace, and healing. It should be a place to receive God‘s forgiveness and love, not condemnation, or fostering vulnerabilities.
It’s a place where we see real flaws in ourselves and others and accept that no church will ever be perfect.
The church is meant to be a reflection of humanity’s need for God, a place where imperfect people come together to be made more like the perfect one -Jesus, finding strength and shared faith and fellowship.
Performing
Performing on stage requires audience interaction, owning the space, and filling silences with vocal and physical energy. This involves being the center of attention and becoming the focal point.
I have performed on stage in high school in choir, which didn’t require me to be the center of attention. Which I was thankful for.
I’ve spoken at church a few times. But not often, because it makes me uncomfortable. I hate the feeling of having all eyes on me.
The Battle In Your Mind

Everyone has internal conflicts, such as conflicting thoughts, emotions, fears, and doubts, that can impact our decisions and well-being.
These struggles, though unseen by others, are considered one of life’s most difficult challenges. But they can be overcome by controlling our thoughts through awareness, discipline, and changing our mindset. I’m not going to tell you, it’s easy to understand and put into practice. Because it’s not, but it is definitely worth it.
That conflict of thought, is the feeling of being torn between choices, values, and emotions. It’s logic vs intuition or freedom vs security.
It’s an inner struggle that represents the fight against negative self-talk, fear anxiety, and low self-esteem that can sabotage any progress we are trying to make.
The battle in the mind is a foundational conflict. The Bible addresses this as generational tensions and disagreement. And emphasizes the importance of resolving conflicts with love and understanding. Something that arises between different age groups particular between parents and children. This conflict often stems from differences in values, beliefs and expectations. The most significant battles are won or lost in our minds, as our thoughts shape our actions and can lead to inner peace or chaos.
The Bible addresses conflict in various contexts that emphasize the importance of resolution and recognition. Here are some key scriptures on how to approach conflict:

We can fight the conflicts in our minds, when we recognize and question every thought. Become aware of the thoughts that run through our minds and actively challenge any negative or false ones.
We can change our mindsets. Consciously working to shift our perspective from negative or fearful thinking to a more positive and hopeful one.
When we learn to control out thoughts, we take active steps to guard our minds by being careful about what we consume through our ears and eyes and by replacing negative thoughts with positive ones.
There are strategies for winning the battle in our minds, a victory that brings inner peace and understanding of the world around us. These strategies include practicing gratitude, engaging in prayer, and meditating on the Word of God.
1 Timothy 6:12 tells us we need to “Fight the good fight of faith. Take hold of the eternal life to which you were called, and you confessed the good confession in the sight of many witnesses.”
It’s hard work that requires having patience with ourselves for not giving up the good fight. That’s when we win the battle in our minds. Our spiritual and mental struggles need to be rooted in our faith in God if we are ever going to win this battle.
First’s In Life
Firsts I’m life are pivotal, memorable experiences that mark personal growth, from childhood milestones like first steps, first words to teenage first kisses, dates, and jobs all the way up to having children, shape our identity and create lasting memories.
They mark significant developmental stages and teach us about the world and ourselves. First experiences come with the feelings of being emotionally charged. They build character, perspective, giving everyone of them a sense of accomplishment.
Favorite Cartoons
Cartoons were made to entertain children when I was growing up. I wasn’t allowed to watch television very much as a child. But, I remember a few watching a few like “Scooby-Doo.” It was about a talking Great Dane and his four teenage friends who solved spooky mysteries, usually involving costumed villains trying to scare people away from hidden treasure.
The other were cartoon adaptations I enjoyed like “The Wizard of Oz.
Faith In Action: The Path To Seeing God

The Bible speaks often about believing, acting, and seeing, and it presents them in a specific spiritual order. And these three actions are related.
In scripture, bleeding is a starting point for those following God. Faith begins before we see results.
Trusting in God’s character, promises, and Word even when circumstances don’t yet show the outcome.
Belief is internal, it’s of the heart and mind, but it’s powerful enough to change actions and destiny.
Here are a few keep scriptures for believing:
2 Corinthians 5:7 – “We walk by faith, not by sight.”
Hebrews 11:6 – “Without faith it is impossible to please God.”
Acts 16:31– “Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved.”
Believing in the Bible, is always the foundation.
Acting -Faith is proven and completed through actions.
The Bible teaches that real belief produces action. Faith that never acts is considered incomplete.
Actions don’t replace belief -they reveal it.
Obedience is faith expressed outwardly. And acting on God‘s Word indicates spiritual results.
Here are a few scriptures:
James 2:17 – “Faith, if it was no works, is dead in itself.”
James 2:18 – “Yes a man will say, you have faith, and I have works. Show me your faith without works, and I by my works will show you my faith.”
James 1:22 – “Be doers of the Word, and not hearers only.”
Seeing – God’s results, outcomes, and fulfillment.
What we believe in obey, then we often see God’s work, fulfillment, or breakthrough..
Seeing involve spiritual understanding, answered prayer, or God‘s promise is becoming visible.
Sometimes the “seeing” is immediate other times, it requires patience. God reveals Himself to those who trust Him.
God fulfills His promises.
Here are a few scriptures:
Joshua 21:45 – “Not one of all the Lord’s good promises to Israel failed, every one was fulfilled.”
2 Peter 3:9 – “The Lord is not slow in keeping His promise…He is patient with you.”
God brings His work to completion.
Philippians 1:6 – “He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.”
Isaiah 55:11 – “So is my word… it will not return empty, but will accomplish what I desire.”
God causes the outcome.
Proverbs 16:3 – “Commit your deeds to the Lord, and your plans shall succeed.”
God makes all things work together.
Romans 8:28 – “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love Him.”
Genesis 50:20 – “You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good.”
“What good does it do, if someone claims to have faith but does not prove it with actions? This kind of faith cannot save. Faith by itself, if it does not prove itself with actions, is dead.” James 2:14-17 (paraphrased)
We Are Called To Examine Ourselves

The Bible teaches us to examine ourselves concerning others with humility, love, and respect.
This involves assessing whether our life reflects the teachings of Jesus. 2 Corinthians 13:5 commands believers to “examine yourselves to see whether you are in faith.” This can be done by considering our actions and reliance on Jesus, and the fruit of the Spirit, which are love, joy, and patience in our lives.
The purpose is to gain assurance, identify areas that need growth, and ensure our faith is authentic. This leads to transformation rather than self-deception.
David in Psalm 139:23-24 asks God to, “Search me, O God, and know my heart. Try me and know my anxious thoughts. And see if there by any hurtful way in me, and lead me in the everlasting way.” This shows a dependence on God to reveal our own sin and motives, as we may not see them ourselves.
The Apostle Paul connects self-examination with participating in the Lord’s Supper (Communion) stating in 1 Corinthians 11:28, “But let a man examine himself and so let him eat of the bread, and drink of the cup.”
There are some questions I ask myself that I find important for self examination:
- Are you trusting in Jesus alone? Examine if your faith and salvation are based on who Jesus is or what he has done, not on our own efforts or perceiving good deeds.
- Do you see the fruit of the Spirit? Consider if you are growing in love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. (Galatians 5:22-23).
- Is your prayer life genuine? Are you praying with sincerity, or is there bitterness, envy, or evil in your heart.
- Are you living out what you believe? Compare your actions to your beliefs. Are you putting your faith into action, or are you simply hearing the Word without doing it?
- Are you relying on God’s power? Recognize that transformation is not solely your own effort but a work of the Holy Spirit. Are you depending on Him to change you?
There are also some things to avoid when we examine ourselves.
- Unhealthy introspection. Avoid becoming overly self focused to the point of despair or self-pity. Do not fall into thinking “I’m failing at everything” or my growth is hopeless.
- Making self-improvement goal. The goal here isn’t self improvement towards its own sake, but the purpose of being more like Jesus and glorifying God. The focus should be on Him, not on ourselves.
- Focusing only on feelings. Self examination should not be based on feelings alone, as it can be unreliable. Instead, look to the unchanging truth of God’s Word.
The Quiet Life
Sometimes in life, we meet people who have to push drama. There is something in their personality that makes them want to upset every situation. Their behaviors and outbursts are unpredictable and inappropriate. I used to try and be empathetic, but now I tend to just brush off their emotionally reactive traits.
Some people fuel drama due to their deep-seated need for attention, validation, and control. Whether it stems from, insecurity, boredom, or past traumas it is a way for them to feel significant or powerful. Which I could use less of in my life. I usually walk away, if God doesn’t show me that this person needs help and will listen. My default is I will try and help anyone. If they show me that they don’t want my help. I avoid interacting with them.
