Steps To Your Personal Path

Losing, or lacking, a sense of direction can feel like being stranded in the forest of life without a compass.

Maybe you want to leave a positive impact on the world, but aren’t sure how to channel your boundless compassion into reality. Maybe you’re just feeling Stu k on cruise control, both a work and your personal life – and can’t shake a looming sense that you’ve lost touch with who you are. Maybe you’re realizing that the career path you’ve been pursuing isn’t what you wanted at all – and those unknown alternatives feel too overwhelming to face.

When you’re feeling lost like this, taking dedicating time to reflect and reconnect with yourself can help own true North.

Here are a few steps to get you started:

1. Get into the right frame of mind for contemplation. The tricky part to unveil our purpose is that we keep our mind so busy that we rarely have enough time to complete a thought before we are off to the next task.

Which is why Step 1 is simply… stop doing. Sit with yourself, and get to know who you are.

Having a bit of an awkward introduction. Try this mindfulness-based exercise, which can connect you with your body through breathing.

  • Sit comfortably and close your eyes.
  • Keep both feet on the ground and you hands in your lap.
  • Breathe in through you nose for four seconds. Focus on the breath and the air coming in.
  • Breathe out through your mouth for six seconds. Focus on the air coming out

Repeat as necessary until you feel in the moment, aware of yourself, and ready to clearly define your outlook.

2, Answer these 6 “get to know me” questions. Below are a few questions to ask yourself as you get to know the awesome person you truly are.

Q1. What brings a smile to your face?

In other words: When you think about…..you cannot help but smile.

This can be more than one thing, of course, but try to identify as best you can. For example, maybe it’s planning get-togethers, attending theater or dance performances, or listening to podcasts on a topic that – up until recently you didn’t know you were interested in. Or as simple as going for a drive, or taking a walk.

Q2. What Improves your mood?

When you are feeling down or cranky, which activates or things help quickly elevate your mood?

This might be helping out other people, picking up a book at poetry, attended an exercise class, or getting out of town for weekend trips.

Knowing what types of activities boost your mood can help you prioritize them in your life.

Q3. When you were younger, did you see yourself doing something in particular?

What did you dream of when you were younger! What drew you to that position or field?

For example, maybe you wanted to be a veterinarian because you loved animals, or a politician to improve the world around you.

Does any of that initial attraction still remain?

Write down those dreams and the motives behind them, however vague or specific. There may be ways to incorporate them into your current life through a hobby, class, involvement in local organizations, or career change.

Q4. Is there a career or job that someone in you life talked you out of doing?

Often, we have career interests that either overly or subconsciously get rejected, either by those around us, societal norms, or our own biases and expectations.

Reflecting back on those can give us hints into our passions and what excites us.

Why were you drawn to those roles in the past?

What can you study or learn today that will bring you closer to the field?

Q4. What is your spiritual belief and Are you practicing it?

Religious or not, it’s often important for us to feel connected to someone greater than ourselves.

This can be a force like karma, universal energy, or God; or as loosely framed as practicing kindness and unto others.

Are you implementing your beliefs in your every day lives? What volunteer work can you do, or community can you join (or revisit, That will help you practice those fundamentals?

Q5. Close your eyes and visualize your ideal self Years from now. What are you doing?

Once you open your eyes ask yourself:

Are you on a more or less after you get there?

Is there anything you can do today to make it a smoother journey? What about next week, or next month?

If you can think of one answer to one of the questions go ahead and write it down now. Make a note to notice the answers as they arise in your day-to-day experience.

1. Reflect On your responses

The question you answered yes the start of finding your path. The next step is to wait and reflect on the answer if you wrote down.

It may take a few minutes, hours, days, or even weeks before you connect the dots between your answers. Your answers may also evolve are you remember more about your history, And how it ties to your now.

There are many ways to get your brain neurons firing and create new synapses to get your are creativity flowing.

2. Mindfully acknowledge any anxieties

Does anxiety about the future Tend to cloud your thinking process? Rather than letting it overwhelm your progress mindfully acknowledge it with deep breathing so you can move on.

3. Get out of your comfort zone

I tend you be habitual creatures and follow the same habits and routines: We drive the same route to work, Eat the same foods and buy the same type of clothing.

Break out of this and Do something that makes you feel uncomfortable, ride a bike or take a different route to work, take a cooking class to learn a totally new cuisine, or ask a trusted friend to style your outfit for a party. You may discover a part of yourself you haven’t embraced before.

4. Get moving with invigorating exercise

Creativity is at its peak when you get your endorphins moving. The endorphins make you feel balanced and at peace with the world.

This is when you are more likely to make great decisions and think clearly. You do not have to join a Boot Camp down the street. Simply by walking you can get those feel-good chemicals going.

5. Meet at totally new group I’m friends

Socializing And having new experiences open up new possibilities, weather is as simple as going to the gallery together or a complex and we introduced to a new Friend’s culture.

Remember, even the act of thinking about what you want to do in your life and encourage you to start acting in a way that’s true to your goals. In the meantime, enjoy exploring what arises an is brought to you.

6. Identify and accept, The fundamental what are you’ve uncovered

When you reached a point where you start noticing a pattern and what makes you feel fulfilled? That’s when you started to identify your path (or at least some resemblance of it).

Come a moment to accept and celebrate this discovery. Whether is as vague as pursuing a creative career, or as specific as becoming a horticulturist, Go on your way towards the authentic version of self employment.

Right now, you might fill your path is to do good in the world through your job. At another time your path might be to care for a loved one.

Your overarching path can change, and sometimes you just need to find a small immediate sense of yourself to get inspired. Note that you do not need to have your life mapped out entirely – finding peace with ambiguity and a gendered direction is okay.

Moderation

Moderation in all things is pretty good advice and many Christians take it as Bible truth. But is it? Going through the Bible you won’t find this quote “moderation in all things” in any Bible verse, but you will find similar advice.

Here are some verses that present the idea that we should be moderate in our lives and behavior:

Let your moderation be known unto all men. The Lord is at hand.

Philippians 4:5

And Everyman that strive the for the mastery in temperate in all things.

1 Corinthians 9:25

Whoever has no rule over his own spirit is like a city broken down, without walls

Proverbs 25:28

And be not drunk with wine, where in is excess, but be filled with the Spirit.

Ephesians 5:18

For the drunkard and the gluten will come to property.

Proverbs 23:21

Within these verses are a couple of key words, moderation, temperate. These are desirable traits of the believer. Moderation is the opposite of excess, and the Bible clearly teaches that we should be known for our moderation- it doesn’t explicitly say moderation in all things, but it does say that our very nature should be marked by moderation. So if our moderation is to be known to everyone, that could not be accomplished if we were moderate in only a few things. What is interesting though, when Paul writes about excess, he cautions about excess of wine (gluttony) but he says we should be filled with the Spirit implying you could never have excess of that. In the same way vein. Proverbs tells us that if we do not live in moderation, if we are drunkards and gluttons, the hallmarks of excess, we will come to poverty.

Being temperate means to be under self control, or to have rule over your own spirit. It is strongly implied that if we can control ourselves, we would not fall into excess and thus be moderate. Self control or temperance is a sign we have the Holy Spirit within us.

But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, long suffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness,temperance: against such there is no law.

Galatians 5:22-23

So what is the origin of the quote “moderation in all things”? It is a English proverb that could have been inspired by the Bible, but it also has been attributed to other sources.

What Does The Bible Say About Tattoos?

Bible Answer

The word tattoo occurs only one in the Bible. It is found in the Old Testament in Leviticus 19:28

You shall not make any cuts in your body for the dead, not make any tattoo marks on yourselves: I an the Lord. Leviticus 19:28

You shall not make any cuts in your body for the dead, nor make any tattoo arks on yourselves. I am the Lord

This passage is talking about tattoos which are part of a religious ritual worship was common. Another example of this occurs in 1 Kings 18:26-28 where the prophet Elijah confronted the priests of Baal.

Then they took the ox which was given to them and they prepared it and called on the name of Baal from morning until noon saying, ‘O Ball answer us.” But there was no voice and no one answered. And they leaped about the alter which they made. And it came about at noon, that Elijah mocked them and said, “Call out with voice, for he is a god, either he is occupied or gone aside, or is on a journey, or perhaps he is asleep and needs to be awakened.’ So they cried with a loud voice and cut themselves according to there custom with swords and lances until the blood gushed out of them. 1 Kings 18:26-28

Since ancient times men and women have cut and painted themselves as a part of their religious worship. It was and still common in some countries for younger men to mutilate and tattoo their bodies. History tells us that the ancient Egyptians, Thracians, Greeks, Gauls, Germans, Britons, Romans, Africans, American Indians, and many others used tattoos. God prohibits any activities associated with religious worship of other so called gods.

Tattoos – Pictures on the Body

The first passage mentioned above, Leviticus 19:28, is the only passage in the Old Testament about tattoos. The Hebrew word used for “tattoo” in Leviticus means incision or imprint. It has the idea of putting a Mark into the skin. The Mark can be embedded or have color.

If someone wants to object and say this passage rejects all cutting of the flesh and marks of the flesh, then we want to ask, “Does God prohibit any cutting of the body for medical reasons such as operations?” The answer is “no” since God wanted Jewish boys to have an operation called circumcision of males. So does allow us to cut our bodies? The answer is “Yes,” but only for a good reason. We need to Rey that we are the temple of God. It is not to be abused.

Do you not know that you are a temple of God, and that the Spirit of God dwells in you? 1 Corinthians 3:16.

Does God also reject also reject all imprints into the flesh?

Again the answer is “no.” But are tattoos safe? Are there any concerns? The answer is “yes.” There are health risks, including allergic reactions, infections, and AIDS or HIV. It is very common for those who have tattoos to want one or more removed later in life. But tattoo removal is not easy.

The Bible does not prohibit tattoos for non-religion reasons. The Bible has nothing to say about it otherwise. Before someone gets a tattoo themselves they should ask “Can I do this in good conscience before God?”

Whether therefore ye eat or drink, or whatever ye do, do all to the Glory of God. 1 Corinthians 10:31

If you have any doubts that God would approve, then to have a tattoo would be sin.

Whatever is not from faith is sin. Romans 14:23.

I must admit I have a tattoo. I had it done when I was young. Another thing I did to rid myself of the pain in my life.

The Sabbath Must Be Entered

My Father was raised Jewish because his Mother and Father Hungarian. My Mother was raised with Indian descent with American Traditions. For those of you who live or work with Orthodox Jew are aware of something that happens every week. Every week on Friday, a few hours before sunset, Orthodox Jews begin rushing about, going home early, preparing, doing last minute shopping, doing all their last preparations, then rushing to their homes before sundown.

The Sabbath doesn’t just come as do other days of the week. It is written in the fourth character of Hebrews that God’s people must also enter the Shabbat and we must labor to enter it. For us in Messiah, the peace of the Shabbat is every day. But it doesn’t just come to us. We must enter it. You can have peace and joy and blessings every day of the week. But don’t expect it to just show up one day at your door.

Choose to enter into the presence of God every day of your life. Spend time entering. Practice entering. Get good at entering. And dwell in the Shabbat every day of your life can be like a weekend. Let it start today. Shabbat Shalom. (Sabbath Peace)

Isaiah 56:6-8

Are Generational Curses Biblical?

It has become increasingly common for Christians to suppose that they are victims of generational curses. Close examination shows this nation to be flawed.

What is a Generational Curse?

A generational curse is believed to be passed down from one generation to another due to rebellion against God. If your family line is marked by divorce, incest, poverty. you’re likely under a generational curse. The Bible says that these curses are tied to choices. Deuteronomy 30:19 says we can either choose life and blessing or death and cursing.

Our families have the greatest influence on our development, including the development of our pattern of sin. Some people even assert that family or generational curses are passed down along generational lines. This belief comes from Old Testament passages which say that God “punished the children and their children for the sins of the fathers to the third and fourth generation.” ((Exodus 34:7)

Whether or not families inherit spiritual curses, it is obvious that patterns of sin are passed down through families. Every one sins; but just as culture, ethnicity, and gender steer our patterns of sin in particular directions, so do our families.

We may inherit many traits and preferences from our parents that aren’t always a positive influence on ourselves or others. When we acquire a sinful habit or belief that negatively affects our lives or those around us, this is known as a generational curse. It is the shadow side of behavior passed down through the generations but it is possible to break this cycle of suffering.

Generational Curses In The Bible

Based on texts taken out of context and used as pretexts, it has become common for Christians to suppose that they are victims of generational curses. As such, the suppose they have inherited demons ranging from anger to alcoholism, from laziness to lust. Closer examination, however, demonstrates this notion to be flawed.

Scripture clearly communicates that consequences – not curses are passed on through the generations.

In this sense, the Bible says that children are punished for the sins of the fathers ‘ to the third and forth generation” (Exodus 20:5). The children of alcoholic fathers frequently suffer neglect and abuse as a direct consequence of their father’s sinful behavior.

I started drinking at age 12 because I saw this was how my father dealt with his problems. So why wouldn’t help me with mine. I discovered that if I drank enough I could dull at the hurt and pain I was dealing with. Moreover the descendants of those who hate God are likely to follow in the parent’s footsteps.

Scripture explicitly tells us that the Son/daughter will not share the guilt of the parents, nor will the the parents share the guilt of their children. (Ezekiel 18:20)

When ancient Israel quotes the proverb, “the fathers eat sour grapes, and the children’s teeth are set on edge (Ezekiel 18:2), God responded in no uncertain terms: “As surely as I live, declares the Sovereign Lord, you will no longed quote this proverb in Israel…The soul who sins is the one who will die.

While the notion of generational curses is foreign to Scripture, there is a sense In which the curse of sin has been passed on from generation to generation. Through the first Adam, “all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God” (Romans 3:23). Through the second Adam – Jesus Christ- atonement is offered to all. Says Paul, “Just as the result of one trespass was condemnation for all, so also the result of one act of righteousness was justification that brings life for all” (Romans 5:18). Throne act of our own we are condemned; likewise, through no act of our own, we are saved,

Breaking The Generational Curse

Maybe you’ve inherited a family curse, or maybe the curse has begun with you. Either way, God has a plan for your freedom that will shatter the chains of that cycle forever! It will stop it in your life and stop it from passing on to your children!

God Turns Our Past Into Purpose

When we think about the prospect of sharing our faith, it can feel both overwhelming and intimidating. Opening up and being vulnerable about what God saved us from, and sharing it with others can feel as though we are exposing ourselves to the judgement of others. But it reality, it is an opportunity to open others up the Gospel of grace. The man who was healed from demon possession in Luke is a key verse to experience similar feelings.

This tormented man lived as an outcast for many years, naked and alone in the tombs near Galilee. When he saw Jesus, he fell to his knees and shouted at the top of lungs, begging for mercy from God. Jesus commanded the demons to leave him and them cast them into a herd of pigs that rushed down the steep bank into a lake and drowned. The man was healed physically, but just as importantly, he was healed in his soul.

He was so overwhelmed with gratitude for what Jesus had done, he begged to travel with Jesus and stay by His side. But Jesus had other plans. Ins, Jesus told him to go and share his story. And he did. What had once been a burden to bear became a powerful story of Holy transformation. This man’s past, and the healing he experienced, became the foundation of a purpose in life that he would have never imagined. Living his life as proof of the life-changing power of Jesus.

The man’s account became a testimony all over the region when he was willing to share it with other. How many people believed in Jesus and found their way into everlasting life simply because this former demon-possessed man allowed his past to become an account of redemption and purpose?

Purpose can deny Christ, dispute Scripture and ignore prophecy, but they cannot deny, dispute or ignore God’s transformational power in someone’s life. Our accounts of pain, adversity and overcoming in Christ are meant to serve as a testimony of God’s faithfulness and power, evidence that God really can take what the devil meant for evil and use it for good.

It is always God’s desire for us to go and share our accounts, whether we feel Conor not. God never wastes our pain. God had a plan for great purpose and a beautiful future for all who believe in Him. Not despite our past, but because of it.

Luke 8: 27-39