Are You A Bridge Builder?

People who bring people together are bridge builders. You find them in all kind of places and in all kinds of circumstances. They are very lovable people who with the very best for other people. They work or do their daily activities and are always looking for ways they can mean something to other people. Bridges connect people.

What Qualities Do Bridge Builders Have?

Bridge builders are people with a big heart who like to see others flourish. They like to see other people be able to take steps that they would move forward and often leave good tips through which the other person can move ahead. I know a lot of people.

When I worked at the recovery center, I watched many bridge builders help people get of drugs. I myself have been a Bridge for these people, as well as adults who have been abused as a child, and helped people get out of domestic violence situations.

How To Recognize A Bridge Builder?

Bridge builders like to help to connect people. They quickly recognize what someone else needs and their minds start searching for ways to help the other person to move ahead. They are the coaches who know precisely what the next step is for someone. They ate never pushy: they just want you to receive happiness. They want it for you. Here are some examples of how to recognize a bridge builder.

A bridge builder knows a lot of people and doesn’t fail to bring people together.

A bridge builder listens carefully and is sincerely interested in how you are doing.

A bridge builder asks questions to find out what they can do for you.

A bridge builder provides opportunities for people to meet each other.

A bridge builder make contact between people possible.

They talk positively about other people.

Bridge builders enjoy it when people find each other.

Bridge Builders Make Good Leaders

There is all kinds of leadership. Bridge builders are often modest, even when their actions can mean a lot of other people. They are focused on other people. They are focused on other people’s happiness and will never drive people away from each other, in contrast to other leaders that speak harsh words about other people; the judge others without looking at the actual background of someone. And the most awful quality some leaders have is the pit people against each other. I get really upset about harsh leaders. Leaders who think they know it all but, in the meantime show discord. I don’t call them leaders I call them alligators.

I would take a bridge builder any day. They make sure that people find each other and connect to each other. They encourage people and make sure that people grow. I like bridge builders and am grateful for what they have meant in society.

, but from my point of view. Most drug addicts have had a horrible childhood and began taking drugs be cover up the pain and got caught up in the vicious cycle and cannot quit on their own.

I meet people every day that are complaining about drug addicts being useless pieces of crap

The same goes with all the stigma around mental illness. Most people have no idea what these people have been through in their life. Have they been abused, raped, torn down by their parents emotionally, were there parents alcoholics or drug users, was there domestic violence in their home.

Most people have no idea what others have been through in people’s lives. They just hate and judge people that aren’t the same as them.

Before You Speak Think

T-is it true?

H-is it helpful?

I-is it inspiring?

N–is it necessary?

K-is it kind?

Stay Out Of ‘Autopilot Mode’

Does life just happen to you? Or do you make life happen?

Imagine if you just drove home from work. You step out of your vehicle, and I ask how your trip was. You probably won’t remember how many times you switched lanes or stopped at a traffic light, right? Butt you got home safe regardless.

When we live on autopilot,it feels like someone else us driving, not us.

Our brains have developed an unconscious decision-making system so we can take care of routine tasks. It prevents us from overloading. However, modern life has hi-jacked our lives-the mechanism that is supposed to protect us is disengaging us from living.

Ninety-six percent of people in America admit to making most decisions on autopilot, according to this research has become an epidemic. Our minds are wandering most of the time.

We are living on autopilot in the place where we need to pay attention: our homes. People make decisions such as what to eat, what to watch on TV, or what to wear-without putting in any thinking.

In one study contributes say “were forgetting that when we are at home, the important things that are to interact with family and friends, without being constantly distracted.

Most people cannot remember what they watched on TV and additional research shows the binge-watching diminishes monody and perceived comprehension.

What about you?

Here are the signs you are living on autopilot:

Your routine is predictable

Your calendar is so full of repetitive activity, and you follow your plan without thinking. There no room for improvisation or last-minute changes.

You are pleasing others

You let other people’s expectations define your choices. You are not paying attention to want or need.

You are always on.

You ever pause to reflect on how you are feeling or what you are doing. You are busy, distracted, or both.

You feel time flies

You can’t remember what you did throughout the day. You feel guilty, like you haven’t accomplished much.

You believe you are missing out

You know you can have more joy, but you can’t help wandering around.

Living on autopilot disengages us from both or present a dour future.

Autopilot Is Not The Only Driving Option

Living on autopilot means leaning towards the most comfortable thinking mode. But we have two, we must learn to use both.

Though system 1 and 2 have been around quite some time, in the book Thinking, Fast and Slow that is mainstreamed,

System 1 is an automatic, fast, and unconscious way of thinking-its our autopilot. This system is autonomous and efficient, though deceiving too, it more prone to bias and repetitive errors.

System 2 is slow, conscious, and effortful-it requires attention and energy. It’s more reliable and can filter the misjudgments of system 1.

The Brain is lay-that’s why it learns towards System 1. We must be aware and train our mind to avoid living on autopilot.

It’s not that is better than the other-the secret lies in using them both in a balanced way.

System 1 is ideal for quick decisions based on little information. When you are driving your vehicle or doing the laundry, you don’t need to overthink. However, you wouldn’t use it to make more significant life choices, like you career, which home to buy, or who to marry.

System 1 is ideal for handling more complex mental activities m such as logical reasoning, managing interpersonal relationships, learning new things, and building habits. It can help you turn off the autopilot.

What are You Known For?

What Do Want To Be Known For?

No, I don’t mean this as a legacy, after death type of question. I mean it as a current present day one.

What Do You Want To Be Known For?

If you’ve even given yourself permission to take the time to answer this question, then you know that these simple words, when even together really represent a profound question. Mostly because your answer is made because of the choices you make in life. And, also the choices others make regarding you.

Everyone has a message

As it turns out, your answer to the question is fundamentally the bedrock of your message.

Despite what local and cable news may tempt you into believing, having a message around what you want to be known for isn’t just about politicians, fortune type CEOs, and high-profile entertainers and entrepreneurs. But it is anyone with a mission.

Your message (or what you want to be known for) is really the anchor that positions you in life. It is what helps you stand out.

Unfortunately I don’t see enough people paying much attention to their message as they should. They either don’t have one, or haven’t updated it to reflect present day.

I believe that kindness can change lives, heal wounds, and certainly help others. Do you want to be known for your love, your compassion, and kindness for others? Or hate, greed, unkind words or things you do.

What to want to be remembered for? I it is difficult to put your answers into words, but harder to do them. As I thought about this question there was really only two things that kept popping up. Two things the really mattered. As least for me.

1. I want to be remembered for being a Kind, compassionate person.

2. I want to be remembered for helping others.

I am a firm believer that love casts out all fear and kindness can change lives, heal wounds and help others.

I not only want to be remembered as someone who is kind, compassionate and help others; I want to actually Be someone who is kinds, compassionate, and help others, whether I am remembered for it or not. Helping people overcome challenges and obstacles, helping strangers (that become friends pursue their passions and everything in between.

I can be hard sometimes to remember that kindness and love go farther than hate and greed if your having an awful day.

It’s a little scary and nerve wrenching to say those things out loud, but once the question is answered. Keep it in your long term memory.

My Father alway told me “You catch more flies with honey than you do vinegar.” How true is that especially in today’s world.

What Do You Feed Your Soul?

A life that feeds your soul is one lived as your best authentic self. A soul-nourishing life offers a very different experience that a soul-starving life. Soul starving leave us overwhelmed, burned out, stressed, depleted of energy, unhappy, disconnected and generally stuck.

Unfortunately too many people live lives that starve their souls that leave a deep void within themselves and lose themselves.

Here are some ways I’ve found to feed souls:

Develop The Courage To Live A Life True To Yourself

To accomplish this you must stop making decisions about how to live based on other people’s expectations or judgements. Instead of doing what everyone else thinks you should do, do what you know you are meant to, what you alone feel is the right thing for you. And feel guided to do.

Living in this manner takes courage, but it allows you to live a life based on fulfilling your expectations for yourself and your souls urging.

Find A Balance Between Work And Play

Most people regret that they spend the majority of their lives working. If you have a career that involves doing your life’s work, your work probably feels like play. Doing meaningful and purposeful work provides a fabulous diet for your soul.

However if your work feels meaningless and your career is busy work rather than life’s work, or if you enjoy what you do but spend most of your time at your work site, life becomes unbalanced. After a while you’ll feel burned out and unhappy and your soul will scream for food.

An example of this is when I graduated, I entered the work field and became a server at the local college, I served athletes from the college I measured and weighed their food for the diets they were required to eat. It really wasn’t feeding my soul, but it paid the bills. Later I was a Nursing Assistant I loved this job I enjoyed helping people. I later worked at a retail store, I absolutely hated. My soul was screaming feed me.

Express Your Feelings

To many of us die without expressing how we feel about the people or situations in our lives. But the soul is fed by expressions of positive emotions like love, joy, gratitude, and passion.

That doesn’t mean we cannot express sadness or anger or other negative emotions. These need to be expressed too, but don’t get stuck in them.

Humans are emotional beings, and too often our souls guides us with deep emotions. Pay attention to what you feel, and express your emotions. Your soul will grow strong and you’ll feel it’s presence more clearly

Allow Yourself To Be Happy

We all have a right to be happy. Sometimes however, we may think we don’t deserve happiness. Or we might choose unhappiness as a way to prove how horrible our life is or to punish the people around you. In the process, unhappiness becomes a habit and we stop enjoying life. Plus you remove one of the primary soul nutrients from your life.

Our souls wants to be happy. Give yourself permission to be happy. If you have to force yourself to be silly things, sing, laugh, or dance, do it. Be happy. Happiness is an elixir for the soul.

Find And Fulfill Your Purpose

Your soul has a purpose. That soul purpose is your way of making a difference in this lifetime.

Sadly, most people feel their lives are meaningless, but our souls long for meaning. The emptiness you feel may come from your soul’s desire for you to do something positive and meaningful in the world, even if it’s on a small scale.

If you don’t know what your soul purpose is, choose a purpose something you feel passionate about that allows you to enjoy of service or do good in the world. You may however, have one purpose is simple like support and taking care of your family, or helping others, it doesn’t have to be a huge task, like finding a cure for a disease. My soul purpose is helping others, it makes me feel good when I can help others, and feeds my soul.

Don’t forget to always take time for yourself, sometimes it may feel selfish but, we all need to renew and refresh ourselves and our soul.

The Salt And The Rotten

Sometimes at home I smell something not quite right. I’ll go to the refrigerator and hunt through it until I find something. It might be a Tupperware dish opened up. It was something else in another life; but it died. This food was transformed. So food is not transformed. So, I throw it away.

Well, what happened has much to do with you. You see, salt doesn’t go bad, and for the same reason it keeps other things from going bad or rotten.

Look at the world and what’s going on in the nation, the media, the television it doesn’t smell right, so you shut it up out of your house, out of your family. Good, but not good enough. Food goes rotten because it is untouched by any preservative and that’s what the preservative of the world is-You!

You are the salt of the earth, but if salt loses its saltiness, what good is it? Stop complaining about how rotten the world is. Start praying, fasting, share the Word, be part of the answer because it is your business. You are the salt and if you don’t do your job, the world will continue to become rotten.

What is one thing that we can do to be part of the solution today, to stop evil, to be the salt of the earth?

When Foundations Crumble

In the Lord I take refuge. How can you say to me flee like a bird to the mountains. For look the wicked bend their bows; they set their arrows against the strings to shoot from the shadows at the upright in heart. When the foundations are being destroyed, what can the righteous do? -Psalm 11-

This Psalm found equally by titled What can the righteous do? Or Panic and Stability. This psalm contains faiths response to fears counsel. The Psalmist is in danger from the wicked, who are bending their bows and shooting at him, and either his friends or his enemies are advising him to hide in the mountains.

Psalm 11:1. “How can you say to my soul, flee as a bird to the mountains.” This could have been advice David was hearing from his enemies or even more dangerous, well-meaning but erroneous advice from his friends, like Peter’s advice to Jesus in Matthew 16:22. “The plea to get away into hiding.”

One can understand why advisors might give David this advice, that is the mainstay of the people, the one man supposedly holding the nation together, his life must be saved at all cost.

Psalm 11:2. “To shoot from the shadows at the upright in heart.” An ambush is being set. Known enemies can be dealt with; it is the unknown who are so intimidating.” The longing for flight may come from fear. He is faced with the alternative that controls us all in crisis: make God your refuge or try to create your own. The ultimate issue is whether we will trust ourselves. Who will be the effective God in our lives? David looks up and sees the immense realities that overshadow these events.

Psalm 11:3. “If the foundations are destroyed, what can the righteous do?” This is a statement that may have been made by those giving David the advice to flee. David’s advisers we’re afraid because they saw only frightening circumstances and crumbling foundations.

What The Righteous Do When…

  • Morality is undermined and evil sweeps unchecked?
  • The Bible is attacked and its teachings are ridiculed and ignored?
  • Even professed Christians support the rising tide of unbelief?
  • Family values are crumbling and the tide of frequent divorce sweeps forward with increasing damage to children, parents, and society alike.
  • Everything around us seems to be giving way?

This is still a common question among God’s people. It’s frustrating to feel powerless in the face of crumbling foundations, and some become convinced that there is nothing we can do. Added to this, some follow the poor advice of “flee” or in modern times, “hunker down, get in the bunker, save yourself and your children and withdraw completely from society.” When the foundations are crumbling the temptation is to stop speaking, stop being the city set on the hill. “What can the righteous do? They can go on being righteous. And they can stand against the evil of their society… The one thing they must not do is “flee to the mountains.”

Psalm 11:4. “The Lord is in His Holy temple; the Lord’s throne is in heaven.” It is interesting that the questions being asked by those controlled by fear is “What can the righteous do? Yet the real question is, to when shall the righteous look? There is nothing they can do if they look to themselves, however there is a lot they can do if they look to the Lord. The Lord is the only one we can look when the foundations are being shaken, and He is the only one to whom we must look if we are to stand firm in unsettling times.

“I was glad when they said to me, let us go to the house of the Lord.” -Psalms 122:1- I no longer live in fear but in truth.

The Mark Of The Beast

Will you accept the Mark of the beast? Without it, you won’t be able to buy or sell. With it, you’ll suffer the plagues of Revelation. What should you do?

It seems that no subject has intrigued and baffled people more than this mysterious Mark spoken of in the book or Revelation. Many books have been written and many sermons have been preached about this subject. Scholars and theologians have offered many different ideas about it.

Some suggest it is a microchip implanted in one’s forehead or an invisible mark or a visible Mark. Some even think it could be one’s credit card or debit card.

But what does the Bible reveal about this puzzling mark?

The key passage reads: “He causes all, both small and great, rich and poor, free and slave, to receive a mark on their right hand or on their foreheads, and that no one may buy or sell except one who has the mark or the name of the beast, or number of his name. -Revelation 13:16-17-

Verse 18 identifies the related “number of the beast” as 666.

If one does not have one of these identifying signs, he or she will not be able to legally transact business. This person will find it difficult to earn a living, to hold a job or to run a business.

What Or Who Is The Beast Of Revelation?

John, the one God chose to write down the book of Revelation, saw a vision of the future. Here is what he wrote concerning the beast:

“Then I stood on the sand of the sea. And I saw a beast rising up out of the sea, having seven heads and ten horns, and on his horns ten crowns, and on his heads a blasphemous name. Now the beast which I saw was like a leopard, his feet were like the feet of a bear, and his mouth like the mouth of a lion. The dragon gave him his power, his throne, and great authority. -Revelation 13:1-2-

If you are not a follower of God, this sounds unreal or from a science fiction novel. Before I was saved this is exactly what I thought. As a follower of God. I’ve have seen many things that have come to pass from reading the God’s word.

To understand what or who this beast in the book of Revelation is, we need to begin in Daniel 7:1-8, where we find imagery of four animals, representing the first great historical empires. These were a Lion (Babylon), a bear (Persia), a leopard (Greece) and the fourth beast (Rome).

It is the forth beast described by Daniel and recorded by John that would have “ten horns” and receive a “deadly wound” before rising again before the end of this age. -Daniel 7:7-8-; Revelation 13:3- This empire is the “beast” of the book of Revelation.

It should be noted that the human leader of this revived empire is also referred to as “the beast” -Revelation 19:20- The mark of the best is the mark or identifying sign if this empire.

The book of Revelation explains that the dragon gives the beast its power and authority. This dragon is Satan the devil (Revelation 12:9-; Revelation 20:2) uses this beast to rule and deceive the world.

A Second Beast Causes People To Receive The Mark Of The Beast.

Now let’s turn or attention to the word “he” in Revelation 13:16. The passage says, “He causes all… to receive a mark.” Who is “he”? Verse 11 says, “Then I saw another beast coming up out of the earth, and he had two horns like a lamb and spoke like a dragon.”

These characteristics indicate a false leader who “causes the earth and those who dwell in it to worship the first beast.” -verse 12- This second beast is called the “false prophet.” -Revelation 19:20- This mark or sign represents a final revival of the Roman Empire at the time of the end. The religious leader that supports the beast “causes” people to accept it.

The mark of the beast represents disobedience to God.

The mark of the beast will separate people into two groups. One will except the mark and the other group will reject it.

John writes, “Then a third angel followed them, saying with a loud voice, “If anyone worships the beast and his image, and receives his mark on their forehead or on their right hand, he himself shall also drink of the wine of the wrath of God, which will be poured out full strength into the cup of His indignation. He shall be tormented with fire and brimstone in the presence of the holy angels and in the presence of the Lamb.” -Revelation 14:9-10-

This shows great suffering will come on those who receive this mark of the beast.

In verse 12 we seethe group of people who do not receive this mark. “Here is the patience of the saints; here are those who keep the commandments of God and faith in Jesus.” This is speaking of the saints of God-all those who are obedient and faithful followers of Jesus.

Throughout the Bible obeying God is a mark or sign of those who are God’s.

The book of Revelation says that those who receive the mark will be subject to the last seven plagues, while the obedient saints are described as having attained “victory over the beast.” -Revelation 15:2- These faithful people will be given eternal life and reign with Christ at his second coming.

It should be noted that there is one commandment of God that is often closely connected to one’s ability to do business and that identifies God’s people. Of God’s 10 Commandments, the forth Commandment is the one most likely to affect one’s ability to work, earn a living and do business.

The command says, “Remember the Sabbath day, to keep it holy. Six days you shall labor and do all your work, but the seventh day is the Sabbath of the Lord your God.” -Exodus 20:8-10-

Most people think it doesn’t make any difference what day one observes, but it does to God. In this age, it takes the “faith of Jesus” to avoid working on the Sabbath and keep it holy.

The Sabbath is called a “sign” between God and His people in the Bible. -Exodus 31:13, 17; Ezekiel 20:12- It identifies God’s people as being sanctified or set apart by God.

Jesus said, “The Sabbath was made for man, and not man for the Sabbath. Therefore the Son of Man is also Lord of the Sabbath. -Mark 2:27-28- The Sabbath today is still a commandment and an identifying sign of God’s people.