Seen. Known. Loved

Has it been difficult to find meaning in your life? Perhaps we know what we’re most interested in, but how do we know if it is our purpose? These longings rooting our desire to feel God’s presence in our lives, which beginning when we know He communicates with us.

For those of us who experience love primarily through words. We need to hear the words of God for us: “Though the mountain shaken and the hills be removed m yet my unfailing love for you will not be shaken nor my covenant of peace be removed.” (Isaiah 54)

I’ve learned in my life that we scurry about trying to find things that will fill the hole in our souls. Until you know you are seen, Known, and Loved by God that hole never fills.

God loves you. He has compassion for you. He sees you and is working to make peace with you. The words of affirmation that God gives very one of us is more powerful than the temporary and often shallow words we get online or around the people, we are around every day. That is the true anchor to our souls. God’s words are powerful because within His words there in love we don’t have to work for or strive to maintain. God loves you. He says it, and the fact is you can experience that love on a daily basis. Particularly if you are an affirmation kind of person. You can let God’s love in by hearing God’s words. Via the Internet you can read God’s words to you or pick up a the Bible and start reading and experience live and companionship in a way you may never thought possible.

The Promise Keeper

As we journey through life, struggles and heartache are inevitable, and they cam leave us wondering: Is there anyone we can trust?

In Psalm 143: 8-12 David tells us that the Lord is trustworthy in all His promises and that He is faithful in all He does. If you’ve ever experienced a broken promise, or someone has gone back on their word, this verse illuminates fresh hope in the midst of dark and difficult circumstances.

David knew that God makes promises. This is an amazing revelation to remember and hold onto. After all, who are we that God would promise us anything? Yet out of His love for us, He established many promises that are not hidden or secret. We can easily find them in Scripture. God is not human that He would lie to us, His children. When God makes a promise to us,nit will be accomplished through His sovereignty.

God is also trustworthy. David knew that he could count on God to fulfill His promises. He is dependable, reliable and worthy of His greatest promise, by sending Jesus to die on our behalf so we can have eternal life in Him.

If God fulfilled thins sacred promise out of love for us, how can we doubt He will keep the other promises He has made?

God is faithful. Not just occasionally, or simply when He decides to be. God is faithful in all He does. God is loyal to those He loves. He is one hundred percent devoted to His children and nothing will ever change that. The vow He made to us is eternal.

Life is challenging. People will disappoint us. And, yes, as much as we try, we may fall short in keeping some of our promises to others. But no matter what happens in life, we can hold on to this profound truth: God will never break His promises. Never. He is trustworthy and faithful.

I’ve had a hard life it left me feeling I could never trust anyone. People always broke their promises. It led me to feel broken and lonely. Their was no-one I could trust. Then I realized God was always with me, and miraculously Has never broke a promise to me. I have learned theirs no one on earth I can fully trust. But I can trust that God will never break a promise. And that I’m never alone, even when I feel theirs no-one I can trust. God is trustworthy.

Life Is Precious, But Why?

Christians believe there is something special about human beings. People are not like anything else in the entire universe. People are not just the highest level of evolved life. The Bible says that people are made “in the image of God.” We share some of His nature; the ability to love and to forgive; the desire for justice; an understanding of good and evil. We also have something eternal in our nature. What some refer to as a soul.

The Bible says God made us ‘a little lower than the angels and crowned us with glory and honor.’ Life is a God-given gift. Everything that Christians believe about the sanctity of life flows from this.

The Bible makes it clear how much God loves us. He knows us individually. In Psalms it says of God, “God created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made.” God knows us all intimately. He even knows the numbers of hair on our head.

Christians believe that God has a total unconditional love for every person. No one is beyond God’s reach, His love or His forgiveness. He wants a relationship with every person. The center of Christianity is the belief that God, in the form of His son Jesus allowed Himself to be killed by crucifixion to enable the human race to have that relationship.

Christianity teaches that people should respect themselves and each other. The Christian faith is a source of many of the foundations in society. The Bible teaches that it is wrong to kill another person; it is wrong to pay back evil with evil; that people should forgive those who do them wrong; that people should try and settle issues privately rather that go to court. Christians believe all physical bodies are special and deserve respect because God in the form of the Holy Spirit lives within them. The Holy Spirit enter the body when they accepted God.

In 1 Corinthians says, “do you not know your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit?

The Season Of Isolation

Over the past eighteen months, we have become more isolated than we ever have been. While many are truly hurting because of everything this year has brought, others are dealing with hearts that are offended by what seems like anything. Some people are on edge, and rightly so, with so many of our lives having been upended.

Yet as much as the season of isolation and division has tried to convince us we don’t need people, we do. And I believe so strongly that the enemy of our souls would love for us to stay offended.

John 15: 12-13 tells us “My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you. Greater love has no one than this: to lat down one’s life for one’s friends”

A person’s wisdom yields patience; it is to one’s glory to overlook an offense.” This is one we should do often in our lives. We should want to pull through difficult season of life with important relationships in tact.

Have you treated everyone the same as you did before COVID? This season of COVID has put so much fear in our hearts and minds, we have lost the way we treat people. It has caused us to hate and lose our connection with each other.

The book of Proverbs is considered the book of wisdom. Chapter 19 is all about building a life of discernment and wisdom. The word “glory” used here is referring to a sign of growth and maturity. A person who has experienced growth knows how to recognize hurt verses offense. Hurt requires healing. Being offended requires a dose of letting go.

The result of being hurt is that we feel both hurt and offended. Taking the time to sort through this helps us to know how to move forward one step at a time.

The first step requires laying down the hurt or offense before God and not picking it back up. There are some places of hurt only God can heal. The second step requires letting it go. There are some things we need to get over and stop being offended by.

We all long to experience both spitting and emotional growth in our lives. We are all humans sorting through emotions and situations that leave us feeling challenged. Someone may need our forgiveness. And someone needs our willingness to overlook being offended. God will give you the strength to do whatever your heart need to do to lay down the off, and as you do, you will experience God’s glory.

Ask and it shall be given to you, seek and you will find, knock and it shall be opened to you. Matthew 7:7-11.

Run Toward The Fear

True bravery isn’t feeling no fear, it’s being afraid and moving forward anyway.

I’ve always been fascinated by the way lions hunt. I have always been drawn to the feline tendencies.

I’ve learned that it’s the lionesses that actually do the hunting and the lion is the one to scare it’s prey towards the lioness. The male are obviously incredibly intimidating, with their manes and their ferocious roars, but it’s the lionesses you really have to watch out for,

The fact that lionesses do not have a big recognizable mane actually helps then sneak up on whatever they are hunting. They lie in wait, hidden in the talk grass, motionless like statues.

I listened to a sermon by David Barton in which he said that the males do play an important albeit small role. While the females stalk their prey from behind, the long of the jungle will come from the front and let loose one of those roars that gives him his spot at the top of the food chain. His sound is so powerful it can be heard from 5 miles away. Hearing that terrifying noise causes a gazelle or antelope to run as far as they can away from whatever made the sound.

What they don’t know is that as scary as it sounds, the one roaring is more bark than bite. So away they go directly into the path of the real threat: the waiting lionesses. In other words, the prey’s instincts are wrong. Going with their gut causes them to make the last mistake of their short, little lives.

It’s counterintuitive, but the right choice would be to override their emotions and run toward the roar.

It’s shocking how often that is true. When you run from things that scare you, you move toward danger, not away from it. If you fail to face your fears, they will always be right there behind you. You must suppress the little voice inside that’s telling you to get out of dodge. It is not your friend.

When you feel that panicky fight-or-flight sensation and you want to run away, do the opposite. Run towards the roar. You have come into the kingdom for just such a time as this. (Esther 4:14)

As a child my mother used to come in the put her hands around my neck while I was sleeping at night. As an adult I used to wake up with nightmares of her standing over my bed choking me. That would be all the sleep I would get after that. I had to decide that I would go through it running towards the roar. I started a journal that when I woke up having night terrors instead of being scared and screaming and crying I was going to be strong and let these night terrors have there way and just go back to sleep when it happened. It worked. Each time I decided to let it run its course it got easier.

God calls us to go to the places that frighten us so that we will fully trust Him. The only way for you to see God do the kinds of things He desires to do in the through you is to run toward the roar again and again and again.

We can see the tenacity of the Spirit in the life of David in the Bible when he confronted Goliath in the valley of Elah, he didn’t wan to face a nine-foot warrior who was spewing out death threats against the young shepherd.

So it was, when the philistine arose and came and drew near to meet David, that Devil hurried and ran towards the army to meet the Philistine. (Samual 17:48)

It’s incredible that David was willing to fight Goliath at all. The fact that he sprinted toward what seemed like a certain death is astounding. He killed the giant in the end, but first he had to run toward the very thing that terrified him the most.

What in your life are you being called to right now? What is your biggest fear right now? Run Towards The Roar.

What Is A Victim Mentality?

Do you constantly feel as though you have no control over situations or that other people are out to get you? Or do you fee, as though bad things keep happening to you no matter what you do? If you find yourself blaming other people for events or situations in your life, you may be struggling with what it known as a victim mentality.

People with a victim mentality feel as though the world is against them. You may feel as though everyone else is against you, your partner, your co-workers, or even your family and friends. Even though there might be things that you can help fix the situation, you don’t take responsibility for anything and feel as though everything is out of control.

In addition you might take things personally even when they are not directed at you. Have to ever asked yourself “What did I do to deserve this? Maybe you feel resentful all the time.

We have all went though a bad time on our lives or experienced trauma, but you had no coping strategies at the time and developed a negative viewpoint or a victim mindset. This led you to believe that life just happens to you and you have no responsibility for what happens in your life.

Even when people come along and try to offer you solutions. You probably come up with a list of reasons why those solution won’t work and leave those who offer help frustrated or not understanding what went wrong. If you’re like a was, or you know someone like this. It can be hard to understand what their thinking.

We might even question why people continue to behave this way. The truth is that there are probably some secondary benefits of refusing to change a victim mindset. Maybe their gaining sympathy or attention for your distress from what happened to you. Maybe their feeling relieved that others are offering you help or validation. Probably not wanting to feel vulnerable again, and it’s so much easier not to take risks.

What Is A Victim Mentality?

While a victim mentality is not a recognized diagnosable condition, it is a commonly accepted term and has some other alternate names such as victim syndrome or victim complex.

Example: My mother always made me feel inferior, and worthless which led to me believe I was a victim of circumstance that wasn’t even supposed to be born. I was so used to feeling like a victim it was very difficult not to feel like I was normal.

Those with a victim mentality hold three beliefs:

  • Bad things have happened in the past and will continue to happen to you.
  • Others are to blame for your misfortune.
  • There is no point in trying to make a change because it will not work.

For people who hold a victim mentality, it seems like sinking into negativity is easier than trying to save yourself, and you may even force this mindset onto other people.

At its core, a victim mindset is rooted in trauma, distress, and pain most of the time. When you experience a traumatic situation, typically at the hands of other people, you may learn that you are helpless and that nothing you do in the future is going to make any difference.

This leads you to feel vulnerable and afraid, and in turn, you choose not to take responsibility or place blame on other people and make excuses even when there are actions you could take.

In childhood we often feel like victims because we have no control what people do to you. Then as a result in adulthood being a victim is ingrained into us. It makes it a hard road ahead of us. A difficult path to become responsible for our own lives and have a degree of control over what happens in going forward.

It seems like when other people try and help you, it’s common to retreat into self-pity mode and think that nothing will ever work.

It’s hard work to change but we must work toward a meaningful change.

The Origin Of Halloween

The name “Halloween’ comes from the all Saints Day Celebration of the early church, a day set aside for the solemn remembrance of the martyrs. All Halloween Eve, the evening before “All Saints Day” began the time of remembrance. All “All Hallows Eve” was eventually contracted to Halloween.

As the church moved through Europe it collided with pagan cultures and confronted established customs. Pages holidays and festivals were so entrenched that new converts found them to be stumbling blocks to their faith. To deal with the problem, the organized church would commonly move a distinctively church holiday to a spot on the colander that would directly challenge a pagan holiday.

To invent a counter pagan influences and provide a alternative. But most of the church only succeeded in “Christianizing” a pagan ritual-the ritual was still pagan, but mixed with Christian symbolism. That’s what happened to All Saints Eve-it was the original Halloween alternative.

The Celtic people of Europe and Britain were pagan Druids whose major celebrations were marked by the seasons. At the end of the year in Northern Europe, people made preparations to ensure winter survival by harvesting the crops and culling the herds, slaughtering animals that wouldn’t make make it. Life slowed down as winter brought darkness fallow ground and death. The imagery of death, symbolized skulls, and the color back, remains in today’s Halloween celebrations.

The pagan Samhain festival (pronounced “sow” “en”) celebrated the final harvest, death, and the onset of winter, for three days-October 31 to November 2. The celts believed the curtain divided the living and the dead to walk among the living-ghosts haunting the earth.

Some embraced the season of haunting by engaging in occult practices such as divination and communications with the dead. They sought divine spirits (demons) and the spirits of their ancestors regarding weather forecasts for the coming year, crop expectations. And even romantic prospects. Bobbing for apples was one practice the pagans used to divine the spiritual world’s “blessings” on a couple’s romance.

For others the focus on death, occultism, divination, and thought of spirits returning to haunt the living, fueled ignorant superstitions and fears. They believed spirits were earthbound until the received a proper send off with treats, possessions, wrath, food, and drink. Spirits who were not suitably treated would trick those who had neglected them. The fear of haunting only multiple if that spirit had been offended during its lifetime.

Trick-bent spirits were believed to assume grotesque appearances. Some traditions developed, which believed wearing a costume to look like a spirit would fool the wondering spirits. Others believed the spirits could be warded off by carving a grotesque face into a gourd or root vegetable and setting a candle inside it-the jack-o-lantern.

Into the dark, superstitious, pagan world, God mercifully shined the light of the gospel. Newly converted Christian armed themselves with the truth and no longer fears a haunting from departed spirits returning to earth. In fact, they denounced their former pagan spiritism in accord with Deuteronomy 18:

There shall not be found among you anyone… who used divination, one who practices witchcraft, or one who interprets omens, or a sorcerer, or one who casts a spell, or a medium, or a spirit it’s, or one who calls up the dead. For whoever does these things is detestable to the Lord. (Deuteronomy 18: 10-13)

Nonetheless, Christian concerts found family and cultural influence hard to withstand; they were tempted to rejoin the pagan festivals, especially Samhain. Pope Gregory IV reacted to the pagan challenge by moving the celebration of All Saints Day in the ninth century-he set the date at November 1, right in the middle of Samhain.

As the centuries passed, Samhain and All Hallows Eve mixed together. On the one hand, pagan superstitions gave way to “Christianized” superstitions and provided more fodder for fear. People began to understand that the pagan ancestral spirits were demons and the diviners were practicing witchcraft and necromancy. On the other hand, the festival time provided greater opportunity for revelry. Trick-or-treat became a time when roving bands of young hooligans would go house to house gathering food and drinks for their parties. Stingy household ran the risks of a trick being played on the property from drunk young people.

Halloween didn’t become an American holiday until the immigration of the working class from British Isles in the late nineteenth century. While early Immigrants may have believed the superstitious traditions. It was the mischievous aspects of the holiday that Attracted American young people. Younger generations borrowed of adopted many customs without reference to their pagan origins.