Actions Speak Louder Than Words

What you do has a stronger impact on people that what you say.

Oftentimes, please will say one thing and do another; the phrase actions speak louder that words means that people are more likely to believe what you do rather than what you say, there is a difference between the two.

It is much easier to lie with your words than with your actions because what you more strongly correlates with what you want and what you believe. You can say anything without believing strongly in it.

Parents must remember that they should lead by example. Children are more prone to feel allowed to do what the parent does, even if the parent tells them not to do it.

This proverb is more than several hundred years old. Some of the expressions of it are found in the Bible including this verse in the book of John, which stresses that saying you love someone is not the same as doing things for them.

“My little children, let us not love with word or with tongue, but in deed and truth. -John 3:18-

Saying is one thing and doing is another.

A word spoken in a season is like an Apple of Gold set in pictures of Silver, actions are more precious than words.

In this modern day, this phrase is used to get people’s actions to line up with their words.

For example consider this dialogue between a father and his child,

Child: Dad, I promise I’ll be on time for dinner, and I’ll do my homework as soon as I get it.

Father: Well, that sounds great, but actions speak louder than words. I’ll believe it when I see it.

It is also a common piece of warning in modern relationships when someone’s partner constantly says that he loves her but doesn’t back it up with his actions. The recipient of these words is often warned to pay attention to find the truth of how he or she feel.

I was in a relationship where my partner would say he loved me, but when we had a dinner date he wouldn’t show up. Or he would say I’ll fix your sink for you, but wouldn’t do it. We need to be careful that we see what people do, instead of believing their word, watch people’s actions rather than believing their words. Actions tell you a lot more than words.

The proverb actions speak louder than words reminds us that what we do has more significance than what we say.

I Am What I Choose To Become

“I am not what happened to me, I am what I choose to become.” -Carl Jung-

It took me years and a lot of reading to realize this quote was true. It just would sink into this thick skull of mine. I was in a really bad place when it did it changed my life.

Often people get very upset when you even suggest that what happens to them does not need to determine how they feel.

People tend to blame, people keep repeating what happened to them over and over in their minds. People keep reliving what made them feel bad.

As long as we focus on what we don’t want, the longer we will feel the negative emotion associated with those thoughts and the longer we will remain in that unwanted situation.

What you think, you become, What you feel you attract, What you imagine, you create.

This is the Mose powerful insight we can have:

What you think, you create

So why are we still thinking negative thoughts, about what we do not want, about what we do not like? Its a awful cycle to break.

The longer we keep focusing on the drama, as in thinking about it, telling people about it, hammering on the injustice of the situation the longer we will stay on the vibration and the longer we will keep attracting similar things.

I wise old soul once said to me “I don’t have to live the sins that others have done, you are not their sin. Stop living like it.”

The only way out of a negative situation is thinking about what you do want, how can we solve the problem.

If we’re focusing on solutions, we are on a very different vibration than when we are thinking about the problem itself.

It often seems like a thin line between thinking about the problem itself and thinking about solutions for that same problem.

But there’s a huge difference.

Reliving injustice by talking about it keeps you on a vibration which will attract more of that injustice. Focusing on what we want and how we can get out of the situation puts us on a vibration what we will find solutions.

We cannot create a positive future by focusing on negative things of the past and the present.

We need to focus on how we want our future to look like, to be able to actually create that future.

When we envision what we want. We understand that once we start living by this very simple but never easy-principle, we can always feel good. Accepting where we are right now and think about what we want are key elements to feeling good.

The only way to stop feeling bad, is to stop thinking about the things that made you bad. The only way to stop thinking about negative things, is to actively steer your thoughts to things you do want. But we need to practice everyday if we are going to change the cycle of negative thoughts.

The minute you feel your thoughts are slipping towards your dark place again, don’t get upset, don’t be hard on yourself because that would keep you on that cycle of feeling bad just acknowledge it and steer away from your dark thoughts.

You are the only one responsible for how you feel. You and you alone decide how you feel by steering your thoughts towards positive wanted thoughts and situations.

Even when you feel like no body cares or loves you, you care and love yourself, right? So you are always loved by yourself and the God who created you. It’s our own dark thoughts that make us temporarily blind for the love of others.

Do the things, think the thoughts, that bring you to the vibration of feeling good the more good things will come to you.

Focus On The Good

I have learned to believe that our thoughts control our reality.

I believe that we can manifest pretty much anything in life if we believe in it, and truly believe in it, not just say we believe it.

This isn’t always the easiest thing to do or does it happen overnight. But, if we focus on feeling the way we would feel if you did. If you have X without having it, if we focus it might become a reality for us.

This hold true for when you want something we might not currently have, but when we already have that in which we desire. Don’t just forget about the feelings once you feel happiness, but keep focusing on it. Don’t lose sight of it.

When you focus on the good, the good things get better. -Abraham Hicks

It’s not to say that if you focus on the happy and the good that you’ll never have a unhappy or bad day or moment. That’s not the case at all. Life is full of ups and downs, and it’s important to embrace both the good and the bad. If we focus on the greatness, it’s just going to get better. It will continue to manifest itself to us in one way or the other. Don’t for once take it for granted. Focus and keep feeling those feelings. Fell the feelings deep within yourself.

As much as it would be nice if life was just full of only great moments, we likely wouldn’t grow very much if that were the case. We might not be able to fully appreciate the good if we ever never had to experience the not so good. We become stronger and wiser from the less than ideal moments in our lives, so when we fully embrace both the good and bad. We should fully embrace it.

It’s important to allow ourselves to feel the bad, feel it, accept it, understand it and move on from it. Don’t resist the bad things it help us to grow. And when the good happens enjoy it, embrace it, feel gratitude for it, and focus on it.

Snakes Have No Ears

I was reading yesterday and came across the question “Do snakes have ears?” Not knowing much about snakes, I found this interesting. Snakes have no ears, but why?

Most snakes have no real sense of hearing. They can sense vibrations, but they have no ears. In the natural realm, serpents are just another creature. Yes in the spiritual realm they represent darkness. In the spiritual realm, faith is.inked to hearing. Snakes have no ears to hear, so the enemy doesn’t live by faith.

The enemy attacks in the realm of no faith. He wants you to doubt- doubt God’s goodness faithfulness, provision. When you give in to doubt, then discouragement, anger, anxiety, and the propensity to sin comes. This is seen clearly in the Garden of Eden to the temptation of Messiah.

You defeat the enemy by faith. It is written in the Bible that when the flaming arrows of the enemy comes you way, you’ll extinguish them by the shield of faith. When that though of discouragement, anxiety, doubt, bitterness, or temptation comes your way, lift up the shield of faith.

Stand by the Word of God. Hold to His love. Declare His goodness. The serpent is deaf, but you are not. Use your advantage. Stand by faith and crush the serpent underfoot.

Is Fear About Pandemic A Sin?

I usually stay clear of the issues in today’s society. In my writings. But this has been on my heart for quite some time.

The COVID-19 pandemic is eliciting a lot of different emotions and reactions for many people, and the most common one is fear. Fear of catching the virus, fear of dying or having a family member die, fear of losing a job, fear of being able to pay bills, and fear of what the future will look like.

A common response I’ve seen from believers in Christ facing very real fears lately is the idea that as believers, we shouldn’t be scared. Beyond that, there are people who believe that if they are scared, then that means they don’t have enough faith and they are in sin. After all, the Bible tells us multiple times to not fear, so wouldn’t it be disobedience if we fear?

While the Bible does encourage us many times to not fear, it doesn’t mean that being scared is a sin. Fear is an emotion that is given to us by God. In its most primal form, it’s meant to protect us from danger and give us energy and motivation to get out of harms way or avoid a catastrophe. Much like anger, the presence of fear itself is not a sin, but it can lead to sinful behavior if we are not careful.

Go ahead be angry. You do well to be angry- but don’t use you anger as fuel for revenge. And don’t stay angry . Don’t go to bed angry. Don’t give the Devil that kind of foothold on your life. -Ephesians 4:26-27-

Fear is not a pleasurable emotion, and if given the chance, most of us choose to avoid it. But fear is not something we can just instantly turn off, it often creates an internal struggle. So when we find ourselves fearful, how we respond in a way that honors God and doesn’t give the Devil a foothold in our lives?

Here are A Few Ways How.

Take Your Fear To God

But when he saw the wind, he was afraid and, beginning to sink, he cried out, “Lord save me!” -Matthew 14:30-

When we start to sense fear rising up in our soul, the most important thing for us to do is to take that fear to God in prayer. You can be brutally honest with Him about what you are scared of and how it’s making you feel because He already knows.

In Matthew 14, Peter experienced fear when he was walking on water and began to sink, so he quickly called out to Jesus to help him. Jesus immediately held out His hand for Peter and kept him from drowning.

Peter’s first reaction was to ask Jesus for help because despite being scared in the moment, he knew Jesus was trustworthy. When you are scared, God is there to extend His hand to help you avoid drowning in fear.

If you feel like being afraid is a sin, or if you’ve been taught that it’s wrong, it can be tempting to try and avoid God for fear of Him being mad at you. This creates the fear cycle.

Explore Where Your Fear Is Coming From

Let Us Examine Our Ways And Test Them, And let Us Return To The Lord. -Lamentations 3:40-

Depending on their past experiences and personalities, some people may have a greater natural propensity to fear than others. If you have experienced abuse or rejection as a child, or maybe you have a more timid personality, these factors may cause you to fear more often and strongly that others.

Maybe you are so fearful because you lost a loved one, or are considered high-risk for the virus. Whatever fears you are facing, there are reasons behind it and the more you tap into those fears the better chance of getting to the root of them and moving forward in a healthy way.

Fear becomes sin when we attack other people who are not afraid. Or berate them because they are not afraid. When we make our fears all about hurting other’s or blaming others for your fear. The Devil has a foothold on you.

Recognize The Blessings God Can Bring From Your Fear

Praise be to God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in our troubles with the comfort we ourselves receive from God. -2 Corinthians 1:3-4-

Being comforted by God during the pandemic will strengthen your relationship with Him and deepen your faith and you will see the results of that for a long time after this is over.

Approaching The Mountain Top

The Bible says that our walk in the Lord is like going up a mountain. It’s an upward call, as ascent. Going up a mountain teaches us how to ascend in our calling in the Lord.

The mountain narrows until we reach the pinnacle, the thinnest part of the mountain. The secret of success in our walk is the higher you go in the Lord, the more we have to stay close to the center, the less we can go off to the right or to the left. The higher we go in the Lord, the less we can fool around, the more focused we need to be, the less we can afford to be distracted from God’s calling or engage in things which have no eternal value.

Our time, energy, resources, finances, work, home, marriage, our all- focused to the glory of God. God is calling us to the heights, we must learn to walk the straight and narrow. Stay closer to the center, focus all our lives to His Glory, and we’ll walk the heights and our feet shall stand on the pinnacle. Higher ground -Psalm 84:11-

Go one step higher in the Lord today. Get rid of one more distraction, sin, or compromise, and zero in on God’s perfect will for your life.

Developing Godly Relationships

Romans 12: 9:10 says “Love is to sincere and active, hate what is evil, hold on tightly to what is good. Be devoted to one another with brotherly/sister,y affection as members of one family.”

God created us for community. We’re wired for relationships with our friends, spouse, co-workers or kids. God intended healthy relationships to be compassionate, sacrificial, honoring, and forgiving. Cultivating those qualities often means surrendering our expectations for relationships and trusting God instead.