Your Value Doesn’t Decrease Based On Someone’s Inability To See Your Worth

Value systems in today’s society are based upon the most common things we are surrounded in everyday life, and everything we do is considered weird because human beings are by default scared to step outside their comfort zone’s.

And I have to mention that weird is considered to be something bad, which is not because it’s something different and it shows creativity, uniqueness and innovation. So when people call you weird think about it and second, smile and say Thank You for the compliment.

At the mention of moral values is completely ignored because they cannot be specifically defined or scientifically proven to be right or wrong.

When I go to town and do shopping sometimes people stare at me, or ask why are you so weird, I tell then if you took the time to go to know me, you might understand.

Being weird or different is something we should be proud of. It’s what makes you you.

In my opinion the first thing we should go for is in analyzing someone’s worth is their willingness to spread good, big things as well as the small things.

If you go through your day with sincere intention to share love, smiles, and good fortune with everyone around you, without hidden intentions. So that you should never have to question if you are a good person or not. It’s not about what everyone thinks about you. If how to think and feel about yourself that identifies your worth.

Be willing to help to a stranger, live your life to give back. If it’s freely given be willing give back.

Do good and get good in return

Always be willing to give more that you get, that’s what generosity is and it’s a very powerful trait in increasing your life quality.

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When we start practicing this attitude and behavior we have to be very careful about toxic people that are able to suck your energy and willingness to do good for the rest of the day, or week.

When it happens and it will consider it a lesson so you can do better tomorrow. And try and avoid that toxic person. I do not let toxic people near me if I can help it. If it’s someone within your circle of friends, that is a clear warning they don’t belong there. We have to learn to handle toxic people.

I chose to ignore them or walk away, some people chose to make themselves unpleasant in a conversation. You have a right to act anyway because it’s your energy.

You might feel like everything is heading against you since you’ve made yourself open to share and spread love. No change in life is easy. You have to keep your willingness to improve and get stronger, so you can do more good and increase your value so much that if forces you a smile when you look at yourself in the mirror.

The Courageousness Of Accepting Things As They Are

It is only when we have the courage to face things exactly as they are, without any self-deception on illusion. That a light will develop out of events, by which the path to success may be recognized.

I Ching

One of the hardest things in life is to accept our misfortunes, our quiet times, our frustrations and our fears.

We’d all love to have only success, fun and happiness, wouldn’t we? We’d love to skip the sadness, the fear, the uncertainty.

But this is not how life works. Not all the time.

There are things we have to go through-to grow, evolve and shed layers to slowly unveil the core of who we truly are.

There are times we all fall on the ground and lay idle for a while.

How can you make peace with the heartache you feel right now or the frustration that’s in you heart without turning to run as fast as you can?

You do it with courage and heart.

You face whatever you have to face right now. Without trying to fix it. Without trying to change it. You just let it be.

Yes, it hurt. Oh how much it hurts. But you’re strong and soon it’ll hurt less and less. And in no time it’ll just be a flickering candle spreading light. No pain, no misery. Simply a beautiful reminder of what was once affecting you to the core.

When I was letting everything bother me, I was living a life of hell believing everything everyone said about me in the past. My mother’s words to me were cruel and belittling, my husband’s words to me about everything was my fault. Even my child’s words when she told me

It hurt me so, I began to put up a wall so I would stop feeling anything and began to just go through the actions without any emotion. But I could only do this for so long.

Soon I had no choice. I had to face reality. Why were they saying these things to me, why did my own mother say these things to me.

I reached a point where I couldn’t hide my feelings anymore. The wall I had put up began to fall.

I made the choice not to try and fix it anymore, but to have the courage to find out why it was happening, and as soon as I things started happening, options appeared, I made friends for the first time in my life. I had a support system in my life, friends, counselors, and even my son. I would have done things to change my life’s my son wasn’t there to push me at times.

I finally began to accept my reality. When you stop fighting, pushing, screaming, wishing and instead open your eyes to the power you nurture within.

Fighting reality, wishing yourself into a better future, past, present is easy and comfortable. Embracing what it is not.

Fighting your reality might give you instant relief, embracing it with courage will give you peace for life.

Whatever you are, whether you’re unemployed, pregnant, lost, depressed or simply stuck in a hole you can’t seem go crawl out of begin with acceptance of what is only then can you truly begin to change.

Never Forget How Far You’ve Come

Never forget how far you’ve come. Everything you have been through. All the times you have pushed on even when you felt like you couldn’t. All the mornings you got out of bed no matter how hard it was. All the times you wanted to give up but you got through the day. Never forget how much strength you have learned and developed along the way.

Refine Your Life

In my earlier years when I was going through a difficult transition I used to do this exercise to help me rethink my life. One of the unexpected outcomes was that this exercise helped me free up a bunch of energy and enthusiasm that was hiding inside me.

I discovered a new willingness to take better care of myself. I improved my habits of eating, and exercising I began redefining my own notion of who I was, what I wanted from my life, and what I wanted to give back.

Yes, it can be daunting, I felt like I my found Big Answer. On the other hand I was faced with a whole new set of questions as I starting moving to my new path. I began going to the gym 4 days a week and as I changed some habits my fears and doubts that I thought were just a part of my life were being to disappear.

For me, the most interesting thing about all this was that, for the first time, instead of encountering my barriers and thinking , “ Oh well, I guess this just isn’t going to happen you me,” I began looking at obstacles as invitations to grow and get stronger. I began experiencing with what I would feel like to be on the other side of self-doubt. And of course I started slow because I still had fear I would be rejected. But it felt exhilarating.

As I began to be refined, I could be proud of myself and strong enough to face all my fears and with little doubt. I would get this flood of new energy it was anticipation, excitement and courage. I was able to get up early got to the gym and swim for about a hour, then get on with my new day. I finally had self-efficacy, it’s the sense of confidence you have when you know that you can do what you set out to do.

Know it is possible for everyone by changing some habits and begin to look at things with a new mindset.

Sometimes We Forget How Important Water is

This morning in Church we sang come to the water. I was thinking how many forget the importance of water.

Is God’s gift is not enough? I have had a few conversations about water lately. Water is important to our physical health if we don’t drink enough is can become a dangerous situation. But also it is essential to us as healthy God be in God’s believing people.

Water can be seen in scripture 722 times in the Bible, more often that faith, hope, prayer, and worship. Genesis 1: 2 states the earth was formless void and darkness covered the face of the deep, while a wind from God swept over the face of the waters. Water is such an essential component of like, it was created on the very first day.

Isaiah 55- Come all who are thirsty, come to the waters and you who have no money, come but and eat. Come, buy wine and milk without money and without costs. Wouldn’t it be grand if we could have this in our lives.

Water flows throughout scripture to remind us of it’s importance-both spiritually and physically. Water is the most beautiful element and rich in it’s usefulness and purifies from the filth not only from our bodies it from the soul as well. If you’ve received the grace of the spirit. Water has the power to heal, their are stories in the Bible about the Syrian was cured from his leprosy in the waters of the Jordan river.

Water has the power to purify, to provide deliverance, and it can also destroy evil and enemies as in the story of Noah and the flood.

75% of the earths surface is covered with water. Roughly 70% of an adults body is made up of water, and about 85% of the adult brain is made up of water. Water is essential to life, all all living things need water to survive. So why do we as God’s children, sometimes take this gift, His gift for granted?

Remember that His body was broken for you and water and blood poured out from Jesus’s wound.

So that water to drink from your bottle or glass. Is also that water the God created for us, He has given His life so you we might have life abundantly.

I have a good friend that wrote a song about water, God’s gift to us. “I don’t know what your drinking but, give me a pint as well.” Pure clean water.

Don’t Do Something Permanently Stupid Just Because You Are Temporarily Upset

There are always things that are going to happen that causes us to be temporary upset. That’s just apart of life. But when those things happen we have to find away to keep our wits about us so we don’t do something permanently stupid that we will regret later. Instead we should focus our efforts on handling ourselves in such a way we can be proud of.

A few years ago my son did something to my make my daughter very angry. She told me she’ll never forgive him and they didn’t speak for about five years. It was crazy if he was at the house and she came she would turn around and leave. Then she decided that should accept a apology from him, and when he tried to apologize it was not good enough for her. It caused tension in my family for years. My son moved away and started working at a sometimes dangerous job. She is regretting what she did now. She did something permanently stupid. What ever he did he choose to hurt his sister. So they both acted stupid because they were upset.

Being in a bad situation and acting out only end up making you feel worse in the end, never better. But when you are dealing with a bad situation and you can actively choose to act in a way that shows the kind of person you are striving to be, then no matter how bad the circumstances are you can still walk away from them with your head held high feeling proud of how you behaved. And this a great feeling to have.

Whether it’s lashing out with words you say, or acting out in a physical way, or doing something to intentionally hurt or damage someone else who feel in the moment deserves it acting that way will still ultimately leave you with feeling of regret. Maybe not at that moment or even days later, but at some point you can be sure the regret will come.

Beyond the feelings of regret, you never know if the bridge you are burning today is the very bridge you will have to cross sometime in the further, it’s simply not worth the risk.

If you are able, even the most confrontational situation, to conduct yourself with integrity and treat the other person with respect even if they don’t deserve it, you will always feel proud that you conducted yourself in the right way, and if you find yourself needing to cross that bridge again in the future you can rest assured that the other person will remember the way you treated them and respectful for it.

All I know is the the best feeling in the world is knowing that your God, your Heavenly Father, is smiling because of you. It’s the best feeling even.