My Future Self

If I were to write a letter to make you yourself I would remind myself of future to my present truths that recall God’s past faithfulness, and remind myself that inner peace from God, not a perfectly calm world.

The White Wash Tomb Metaphor

The Bible speaks extensively about the contrast between an outward public reputation and the true state of a person’s soul. It consistently warns that God sees through external appearances and values inner integrity over public praise.

Jesus directly addressed the concept of maintaining a beautiful public image while being spiritually corrupt.

He compared hypocritical religious leaders to “whitewashed tombs.” The reality was they look beautiful on the outside, but were full of dead bones and cleanliness on the inside. In Matthew 23:27 Jesus said, “Woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! For you are like whitened tombs, which outwardly appear beautiful, but inwardly are full of dead men’s bones, and of all uncleanliness.”

The lesson Jesus was trying to teach is that cleanliness must start from the inside out so that the outside may also be clean. Jesus spoke before verse 27 in Matthew 23:26, “You blind Pharisees, first clean the inside of the cut and of the platter, that it’s outside may become clean also.”

We as human beings judge by what is visible, but God operates on a deeper level of awareness.

1 Samuel 16:7 says, “Don’t look on his face, or on the height of his stature, because I have rejected him, for I don’t see as man sees. For man look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.”

What is highly valuable among people can be detestable in God’s sight. In Luke 16:15 Jesus says, “You are those who justify yourselves in the sight of men, but God knows your hearts. For that which is exalted among men is an abomination in the sight of God.”

The reality is that no created being on earth is hidden from God‘s sight, everything is uncovered and laid bare before His eyes. Hebrews 4:13 tells us, “There is no creature that is hidden from His sight, but all things are naked and laid open before the eyes of Him to whom we must give an account.”

The Bible warns us that external religious rituals or a good reputation cannot mask a corrupt heart. God critiques those who honor Him with their lips while their hearts are far from Him. Doing good deeds solely to be seen by others earns human praise but holds no reward from God. Jesus warns us in Matthew 6:1 to, “Be careful that you don’t do your charitable giving before men, to be seen by them, or else you have no reward from your Father who is in heaven.”

Revelation 3:1 addresses a church with a great public reputation that was spiritually dead. “You have a reputation of being alive, but you are dead.”

Building a flawless public reputation, a pristine social media image, or a busy calendar of religious activities while allowing our actual relationship with God to rot from neglect. The Bible tells us good works mean nothing without a relationship with God. God is never fooled by the cosmetic paint of behavior modification, He looks past the whitewash and demands radical, internal resurrection.

Best Local Dish I’ve Had When Traveling

For the last 5 years, my husband and I have traveled to Las Vegas to celebrate our anniversary. Over the years, my favorite place to eat has been Hugo’s Cellar. They are a Steak and Seafood restaurant. I always order the prime rib and shrimp dinner. It’s always been amazing.

Throwing Out A Life Line

Jesus offers us a lifeline of unwavering hope, peace, and salvation in the midst of life’s deepest storms. It can become an anchor for our soul to secure a connection to God’s presence when we feel completely overwhelmed.

When deep storms threaten to pull us under, Jesus remains our steadfast anchor. He doesn’t always stop the wind from blowing but He throws us a lifeline into the dark crashing waves to pull us to safety.

This lifeline involves several aspects of faith and grace. Just as a lifeguard rescues a drowning swimmer, Jesus comes directly into our darkest, most difficult circumstances to pull us to safety.

This anchor of hope in the Bible is often described as a lifeline, that provides firm assurance and a clear guide to spiritual peace.

It’s a model for grace. This lifeline isn’t just for receiving help, it calls us to throw out a life line to others who are struggling or drifting away.

Even in moments of uncertainty, Jesus offers grace, encouraging us to trade our questions for trust and belief.

The beautiful truth is that Jesus never abandons us in deep waters. When we feel like the waves are crashing over our heads, we can reach out and grab the lifeline Jesus offers and cling to His promises, lean into His unfailing love and let the Master of the wind hold us steady.

Things I Wish Were Still Taught In Schools

American schools have gotten so past the fundamentals that students need to survive in the world. I think we need to get back to basics like reading, writing, and basic mathematics, and true American history.

We also need to implement a basic home cooking and sewing, as well as shop, which taught kids a simple life skill such as welding, or painting , and building wood pieces.

Most young adults don’t know how to unplug a toilet, fix a leaky roof, or change a flat tire.

My Household Goblin

My household goblin is a feline

He has some funny quirks. He flips over his food dish, after he eats, and won’t eat in it until he sees me washing it. He will bring me this toys when he wants to play fetch. And every time I open a book he comes and demands attention.

I think this picture shows his meowfia (Mafia boss) behavior.

The Way The Holy Spirit Transforms Lives

There is something powerful about the way the Holy Spirit transforms our lives after we accept Jesus as our Savior.

The Holy Spirit gives believers the power to live like Jesus and be bold witnesses for Him. Of course, there are many ways He does this, so let’s talk about the most common ones.

Jesus said in John 16:7, “Nevertheless I tell you the truth. It is to your advantage that I go away, for if I do not go away, the Helper will not come to you, but if I depart, I will send Him to you.”

If Jesus said it is best for us that He goes away, then it must be because there is something valuable about what the Holy Spirit came to do.

Acts 1:8 gives us a clue, it says, “But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you. You will be witnesses to me in Jerusalem, in all Jude’s and Samaria and to the uttermost parts of the earth.”

From this scripture, we can get a concept of what the Holy Spirit does in the life of a true believer. He sends us out as witnesses and gives us the power to do it effectively.

From my experience I have felt that we have to step out in faith and trust that everything will fall into place. I will be the first to admit this is difficult for me. And on more than one occasion I have let my flesh take over and become too sacred to approach a stranger when the Holy Spirit told me to “talk to a person.” Or witness to them. But, I will never stop repenting for not acting on the urge I felt or trying to do what the Holy Spirit asks of me.

The Holy Spirit works in a believer’s life, and there is one common goal we all share: to make us more like Jesus.

He works by renewing our minds to be like the mind of Jesus. He does this by convicting us of sin and leading us to repentance.

Through repentance, He wipes out what was dirty in us and allows us to bear good fruit. While we allow Him to continue nourishing that fruit, we grow to resemble Jesus more.

Galatians 5:22-23 tells us, “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self control, against such things there is no law.”

The Holy Spirit also works in us through the Word of God. He uses the power of Scripture to convict us and influence our way of thinking. He does this to shape us into godly people.

2 Timothy 3:16-17 says that, “Every scripture is God breathed and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for instruction in righteousness, that each person who belongs to God may be complete, throughly equipped for every good work.”

When we build a closer relationship with the Holy Spirit, He will pull us away from things we have in our lives that don’t please Him. This can be as simple as inappropriate music that becomes distasteful to us because of negative messages that it brings.

The Best Advice Someone Has Ever Given Me

The best advice someone given in one sentence, 8 small words that changed my life.

“You Have The Power To Change Your Thoughts.”


This works because thoughts are not facts, but rather habitual patterns that we retrain. It works best when we can catch ourselves in a thought, check to see if it is a fact, and change it, if it is not true.

I think we are not a victim of our circumstances, we are the architect of our own reality.

When Words Hurt

Words are powerful tools that can build up or tear down, and they frequently leave a lasting emotional impact. They can deeply influence someone’s confidence, sense of belonging, and mental well being.

There is an old children’s English rhyme that goes “Sticks and stones can break my bones but words can never hurt me.” This childhood phrase is far from the truth.

When someone uses harsh, belittling, or exclusionary language, it can cause genuine emotional distress. The fact is few things have the power to ruin a relationship like critical, assuming, defamatory, hostile and inaccurate, or even slanderous words. The reason people do this is because of insecurities, jealousy, or that it makes them feel powerful.

Using our mouths as a fountain of life requires deliberate thought and mindfulness. Ephesians 4:29 is a Biblical encouragement where we are challenged to avoid unwholesome talk and instead use only words that are helpful to those who listen.

“Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but only what is good for building others up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear.”

What’s Something You Used To Worry About But No Longer Do

The simple answer is everything. I used to be a chronic worrier. I felt that if I weren’t in control of everything and everyone the world would fall apart. Then someone told me, that I could change my thoughts. If I didn’t like what I was worried about, I could change it. I slowly began transitioning from being a chronic worrier into having a calmer mindset.
That required me to shift my focus from unpredictable outcomes to actionable present-moment behaviors. I began training my brain through intentional techniques, broke the cycle of continuous low-level stress, and found peace of mind.

The human brain is a marvel of biological efficiency and adaptability. It operates on about 20 watts of power, that’s roughly the energy needed to dim a lightbulb, meaning the brain can effortlessly process meaning, adapt to new environments, and fuel our consciousness.

I learned I could train my brain to perceive different situations. I could change my thoughts and perspective to become a calmer, peaceful, person, all by learning to trust God in every circumstance. And it began by trusting God almighty because He has everything under control.

They Call Him Holy Spirit

There is a distance between most people and the Holy Spirit. The relationship between the Holy Spirit and us is not physical, but relational, caused by human choice, sin, and spiritual apathy rather than God’s absence.

Many people feel that God or the Holy Spirit is far away, yet Scripture teaches that God is omnipresent. The barrier exists because people harden their hearts or sin. This creates functional distance.

When people chase worldly desires or ignore moral truths, their spiritual perception grows dull.

In John 14:15-16 Jesus spoke these words to His disciples during the Last Supper in an upper room in Jerusalem before His crucifixion.

“If you love Me, keep My commandments. And I will pray the Father, and He will give you another Helper, that He may abide with you forever.”

One thing I’ve found is that people will say they know the Holy Spirit, but knowledge of Him and intimacy with him are two different things.

If you’ve been saved the Holy Spirit comes to lives in us. While He is so close to us, few even acknowledge Him. We must yield our lives to Him and walk by His guidance, and live under His control rather than the desires of the flesh. Ephesians 5:17-18 tells us, “Don’t be foolish, but understand what the will of the Lord is. Don’t be drunken with wine, in which is dissipation, but be filled with the Spirit.”

Having a good relationship with the Holy Spirit means letting go of personal control and choosing a daily walk of trust, active listening, and simple obedience. To achieve spiritual intimacy with the Holy Spirit requires total dedication and quiet time to listen to divine guidance.

The Bible tells us the Holy Spirit has divine attributes. He is Omnipresent –Present everywhere at all times. (Psalm 139:7-8). He is Omniscience – All knowing searching the deep things of God ( 1 Corinthians 2:10-11). He is Omnipotent – All powerful, active in creation and miracles (Romans 15:19).

The Holy Spirit is our advocate that supports us. He allows the world to know that God is with you. He allows His anointing and power to be on display in our lives.

He is our comforter. He is something we can wrap around ourselves to keep warm. The Holy Spirit is our covering. He surrounds us and wraps us in love, peace, and presence of God. He gets us through troubled times and will forever be there when we need Him and most. Yet most people do not acknowledge Him as they move through their lives.

He is our intercessor. Although Jesus is our intercessor with God, the Holy Spirit also acts on our behalf. He prays the will of God through us when we don’t know what to say (Romans 8:26).

He is our strengthener. As our strengthener, the Holy Spirit provides additional stamina when we need it, spiritually, mentally, emotionally, and physically. He is our personal trainer and enforcement. If fear or the desire to quit overwhelms us, the Holy Spirit can infuse our heart with the power to stand strong.

He is our stand by. As our standby, the Holy Spirit is ready for duty or deployment, especially in times of emergency. We can rely on him as a resource to move in the places we ask Him.

He is our counselor. He’s the one qualified employee equipped to give us guidance in our personal, business, and ministry of life. He has answers to every social, relational, business, and psychological situation or problem.

He is our helper. By revealing the word and heart of God, the Holy Spirit support and helps us walk out our lives as believers so we can be a powerful witness for Jesus.

This is who the Holy Spirit is in our lives. When we yield to him, allowing him to manifest through us, our life can become an example of Jesus to the world. Other people can be drawn to you and God will get the glory.

We were created to live a life dominated by the Holy Spirit. When we step into that reality, we can find strength and peace like we’ve never known.